Love in "Forgotten Love, Romance and Pleasurable Sex"...Exposed!

Love in Romance...Simple mind!

2006-04-10T15:01:00.000+10:00

Love in romance

"It's a poor and simple mind that can only spell a word in one way." - Mark Twain -

What is it that makes leadership such a multi-functional an dpowerful tool?

Hello Lifestyler,

There was a time when I thought of 'leadership' as just another opinion.

My experience with a vast number of men is that they tend to be either doormats to their wives and girlfriends, or they’re beating up on them.

I've come to believe that leadership taps into something deep in both the female and in particular the male psyche.

It is a power which seems to be more strongly present in men than in women...

Here's the deal on why women aren't attracted to weak, indecisive and insecure men.

No individual is complete, and at a social level, no society will ever achieve a true state of strength without a basic model.

By the way, (you can check this out against her feelings), because when we successfully repress leaders, we weaken men, so that they’re no longer able to stand up for anything.

Of course, if a man isn't unable to offer any strength to himself or society...

They’re no longer even attractive to the women they sought to please.

STOP! I want you to think about that for a moment.

You now have a simple way of measuring success.

Yep, I've proved this concept with others that I met who asked to share the secrets of my success with them.

But, somehow it seemed they were never satisfied in just hearing a story.

Yeah they wanted all the juicy details...

Today, I will share the same best kept secret!

Are you ready?

As you know, I'm a firm believer in sharing what works with the singular goal of helping you to apply it.

It's all part of my philosophy: do good for others and the universe will reward you 1000 fold.

You see, after trying many and varied "pick-up" techniques, time and time again, I faced a scary realization...

Basically, all you need to know is how specifically women do whatever they do.

To be more specific, in my experience, it's considerably easily to engage in conversation.

In other words, connect on a seemingly "mutual" level because you understand what she wants!

You can use all sorts of physiology that may work for a short time (if at all) and then fizzle out requiring a return trip back to the ever present drawing board.

Listen up, great lovers invariably use some variation of the following strategy:

Here it is in a nutshell, and as a very general rule regardless of where women are, they want to be lead
Leaders will almost always achieve their desired results.

The question is do you think the character trait of a leader is important to you?

Why or why not?

The point is finding one technique that works and staying true to it is the SUREFIRE way to achieving lasting and complete success.

Dare I say it, most women want men who can take care of them and can "fix" their problems.

Let me explain...

I'm sure that most women would agree even though they'd tell you otherwise.

In a woman's terminology, she refers to a man as someone who is strong, in control, and makes decisions.

Look, this is a pretty simple formula that works, but it may sound "out there."

A man is someone who can make decisions and therefore stay in control...

Women feel attraction for men who shows confidence, and has the qualities of a leader.

A leader is a man who is in control of the situation, and who makes decisions and follows through on them WITHOUT needing approval from others.

End of story and thanks for reading.

Love in romance

Looking for love: Who are you and Who’s selling Who?

2006-03-31T08:58:00.000+11:00

Looking for Love

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Guess what?

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You're probbaly reading the title 'Who are you and Who’s selling Who' and saying:

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"Is this dude for real".

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Obviously by now, you know women don’t operate logically...

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Unbelievable? You better believe it!

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Yeah...here's the good news and this is for sure, they're predictable :)

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If you're a nice guy settling for whatever woman you can get, read this article carefully with both your eyes and ears open...

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Hello Friend,

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If you’re like me, (god help you, hehehehe) you're on the 'hit list' as the one that women desire!

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You want to be known as the guy who gets approval, (women nod their head with a look of excitement and a big smile on their face.)

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You don't want to be known as the 'nice' guy, the one doing all the chasing (like most nice guys have to do...that's crap and you know it).

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Why?

Because most nice guys end up being freaking lonely, desperate and frustrated like hell, wondering why they're running around doing all the work and still not getting any action.

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Now I want you to be totally honest with yourself here. NO BS.

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Are you the type of guy that has to lower your standards to score dates with chicks...

Listen up, get that engagement ring out of your back pocket, and ditch it.

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You don't have to be hoping to 'strike it lucky' with the first woman who treats you good.

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Look, let this sink in deep because women want to see the real you...

Simply I ask, who are you?

Are you a phony lick ass guy who she thinks is only 'nice' because he wants something from her.

Are you a real man?

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As soon as you understand what I'm about to tell you, you could start attracting new women everyday, week and month.

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What would that do for your confidence?

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Do you think you deserve to get laid....more often?

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Here’s your chance to tap into your god given rights as a male...

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Looking for love

Looking for love: Choose your own relationships...stike it right or burn?

2006-03-30T14:14:00.000+11:00

Looking for love

Remember attraction is everything!

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Hello Friend,

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How are you doing.

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Having sexy desirable women and/or the relationship you want is a bit like starting a fire.

Here's your free, yet highly valauble actionable success tip for today.

Let me explain...

Yes, you're wanting to start a 'fire' (sexual tension) with women, right?

OK. You can do it anytime, anyplace, anywhere...at will.

Naturally it takes time and energy, all comes back to attraction.

If you want to share many magic nights of steamy passion with an incredibly hot sexy woman, you want to be in control of your own results...

What do I mean?

You must build a blazing 'fire' of sexual tension, the chemistry between you and her must be something she is feeling beyond her normal range of emotions.

Now if you lack confidence or are impatient, your focus and energy is all over the place.

It's going to be difficult for any women to be interested in you.

Makes sense, do you agree?

In other words, you're changing your mind and your focus goes from one woman to the next.

To stay on target, you must trigger the powerful emotion inside her.

If you're not living your life as you see it, then overhaul your self-image.

There's good news...

Finally, one day an expert in the art of attraction comes to observe what you're doing.

He tells you that you'll never 'start a fire" if you're rubbing her up the wrong way.

You then ask, 'Well, how should I do it?'

The expert tells you to focus your desires and actions on the women or woman you truly, deeply want to be with and hold it there until the 'fire' (attraction) begins.

You follow his savvy wisdom and within a short time she's hot for you and the fire's blazing.

There's a saying, "I'm old enough to know better, but young enough to still do it anyway."

OK, the point of all this is to fan her flames and "stoke the fire"...

It's simple, actionable, effective and REAL!

This is the sexual attraction pattern anyone can follow to succeed.

As you may have already figured this out, one more tip for the day is don't ever try to guess a woman's age, no matter how hard she pushes or tries to trick you into doing it.

You're guaranteed to come off second best.

If you guess she's too old, she'll be pissed off.

Don't make the mistake of guessing way too young because this put's her on the defensive side.

She will know you're guessing young because you think she is old, and this will also make her mad.

I know it doesn't sound logical...just remember one thing.

Women are not logical, they're emotional creatures.

The best way around it is to say something to the effect of:

"I feel you're the kind of woman who looks great at every age."

She will be so flattered, stunned and pleased at your response that she'll drop the whole age question and perhaps even buy you a drink.

The best way to do it is for you to make the sparks happen, go with the natural chemistry and then pump up the volume...

Thanks for reading, I appreciate you.

Looking for love

Love in Romance...The Power Of Your Subconscious

2006-03-27T17:34:00.000+11:00

Communicate with confidence

Listen up, I really don't know what your ideal woman or date is but I do know you want to know something extraordinary.

So what's stopping her?

Sit back and relax as I explain this phenomena and how it works a little further...

Hello Friend,

How are you doing...today, have I got a special treat for you or what?

Oh...I forgot to tell you, there's a special surprise towards the end of this article, but I won't tell you.

You betcha' bottom dollar...

"Discover The Power Of Your Subconscious To Ignite Her Passion the Lazy Way"

You've probably thinking it would be great to be able to persuade a woman's subconscious mind to do something, would you agree?

Like heck, why would you want to do that?

Hmm, just maybe her conscious mind will usually follow.

Did you catch on to that revelation...

The results have been STUNNING!

Wow! This is true even if her conscious mind (thoughts) disagrees with her subconscious.

For example:

She may make a conscious choice to say no and not go out on a date with you until her subconscious mind suddenly imagines herself meeting and talking to the "guy of her dreams."

If you've been reading this blog for any length of time, I've revealed this to you and you've most likely experienced that same pattern thousands of times.

I mean a simple idea can turn into something AMAZING!

No big deal, right?

Her subconscious mind changed her conscious mind's decision not to go out on a date with you.

Now hold on to your hat, and stick with me here this is where it gets really interesting...

Remember this very clearly...!

How many times have you bought something that logically you knew you could not afford, but subconsciously you imagined the pleasure and positive emotions you would receive as a result of buying?

Do you see the power of this in action?

This means her subconscious mind can be persuaded by many things like visuals, imagination, rhythm, repetition, emotions, etc.

(Guess what...she is just as excited about it as you.)

You see, the conscious mind usually deals with logic, words, numbers, problem solving, etc.

You may not realize it but her subconscious mind is being influenced by the way you talk to her, the words you use, how you move and express yourself.

Whatever her subconscious mind is focused on it will believe, whether it's real or false.

In other words...

Listen closely:

Her subconscious mind isn't choosy.
It accepts any information directly or indirectly through the five senses and stores it.
(The subconscious even records background noises, conversations and visuals you're not even aware of.)

So, that's why she is no different from you.

Now you know why its important in your communications to use strong words that paint pictures (descriptive words) and you must be confident.

Act as if you're already the "guy of her dreams" ...

Remember your main goal is to bypass her conscious mind and persuade her subconscious mind so her subconscious "desire and passion" for you will win over her conscious thoughts.

Then her conscious decisions follow your subconscious, get it!

I thought so...yeah (you're shocked and completelyout of breath because it's the "LAZY" way to turn her passion on.

Now go out, have fun and conquer her "conscious with your confidence."

Thanks for reading, talk to you soon...

Communicate with confidence

Love in Romance...Communicate with confidence and think like a straight shooter!

2006-02-23T12:27:00.000+11:00

Communicate with confidence

"Confidence is the foundation that allows success to flourish." -John Mignano -

If you've confidence in your life, women will respond very positively to you, which gives you more confidence in your love life.

My point is confidence applies to everything in life...

Hello Friend,

How are you doing...

Thanks for reading today's hot article.

What if you started thinking and believing that every women is attracted to you?

Sounds crazy...

Please feel free to share this "insider info" with others.

Would it work?

The only reason I'm sharing this is because I value you and your success as part of my inner circle of subscribers.

So you know it works like gangbusters, (he he he) but if you're skeptical.

Read the fine print at the bottom of this page and unsubscribe :-)

Here's a true story, (short, but mmmm so sweet)...

One day I was at the local mall looking for a new pair of pants, I like the ones that wrap a little bit tight arounf my thighs...because I've noticed there's always a lot of female interest.

I started to look at every woman who went by, in fact there's plenty of hot beautiful babes walking around...

But, there was one who grabbed my eye balls and tongue's attention, so I decided to do something I've not done for quite a while.

Let me ask you a question:

"What is the NUMBER ONE secret to pick-up/dating success?"

People are throwing out all kinds of responses.

But I'll bet it's not what you think of first...

The answer, is CONFIDENCE!

Yep, so I'm thinking I was God's gift to Women!

Now I'm not one for bragging but I think like this all the time.

Do you wanna know why?

Acting confident and picky (in a smart way) about women is a self-fulfilling thought!

Everything about this way of communication spells....confidence.

Your body language and posture to the way you walk is different, you approach and talk differently.

Yeah, just about everything is different in some way or another and it doesn't feel phony!

So I maintained eye contact with these women with my naughty stare and smile of confidence that said: "I can give you the most pleasurable time of your life" baby!

Needless to say this is a real charmer and attraction creating technique and it made all the other gals look....I used a real world example to illustrate my point.

What do you think happened next?

If you don't have a high level of confidence in your ability to succeed with women, then you must beg, borrow, or steal if you've any chance of meeting your dream girl.

What I suggest is focuse on things like improving your confidence, step-by-step!

Thanks for reading, I appreciate you.

Good night, I've got a date with a cutie and some intimate love making :-)

Communicate with confidence

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2006-01-30T15:15:00.000+11:00

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Love in Romance...Do you really know how to frustrate women?

2005-11-06T17:54:00.000+11:00

Love in Romance

"My biggest problem is what to do about all the things I can't do anything about."

- Ashleigh Brilliant -

In a world vastly filled with all sorts of energy...that spark, that chemistry, and that feeling of pure lust begins in the form of thoughts and emotions.

When highly charged people search for 'sexy play mates' to interact with...

You're either wanting to register a stimulating connection, be it visual or physical, right?

Because women instantly pick up on what you're feeling inside. If your touch is light, chances are you'll not connect well.

If your touch has plenty of sexual charge, but it's put together in the wrong way, you'll probably bomb out, too.

So what's a horny man to do?

Dear Lifestyler,

How are you doing...thanks for participating in today's hip shooting discussion, you're much appreciated.

Do you have something puzzling you?

Do you get nervous when you even think about approaching a women?

What's bugging you or troubling you?

Here's your chance to spill your guts and maybe get an answer to your question.

Ok..."Do you really know how to frustrate a woman?

Huh!

To discover the answer read on...

Let's dive right in, but before you go any further, let me ask you a personal question.

Are you afraid to hurt a woman's feelings and/or disappoint her?

Firstly, it's all in the connection, and it's the kind of mindset that's going to win you hearts, plenty of sexual encounters, short or long term relationships.

The reason why I'm asking is because when you meet a woman who is attracted to you, if you put off the inevitable, you'll end up playing stupid games (and then making up excuses to why you couldn't get it together)...

I mean you've got your eye on this cutie, she's hot and attractive, but are you making her wait in anticipation on your first move...

Now creating sexual tension can be a good thing, of course it all depends on your expectation, the belief that this woman is attracted to you.

If you give her the opportunity to spend time with you, then you must expect her to seize that opportunity.

She'll pick up on this belief, translate it to confidence, and feel attraction for you...so now you've got her steaming with desire...

Your antena is up and she's picking-up these signals from you!

Sound familiar?

Basically if you're not making the first move, you're telling her: "I'm in doubt so I'll hold back from doing anything physical with you (ie; touching, holding hands, or kissing) because I'm not sure if you like me or not?

If you're thinking like this, don't worry, you're not alone.

Let me explain...

You see, a lot of men feel exactly like that...like they're trapped in a role that seems out of their control.

Its like a balancing act...

They're juggling the ball trying to be nice, funny and sexy all at the same time.

They're afraid to initiate contact because they aren't sure and in turn, she picks-up on this and begins to wonder if you're really attracted to her because you won't initiate contact...

This drives her crazy!

Why?

Well, most women look to a man for leadership, and they want to have fun, lol.

Yeah, just a cliche' huh.

There's truth in it though, especially when her man is exciting, and isn't afraid to "break loose."

If you don't break loose, what you wind up with is a really hot woman looking else where for some action because she's frustrated!

She's waiting, and silently begging you to do something.

Usually, she won't initiate physical contact with you unless you make the first move.

Some guys just don't get it, they take weeks, even months before they realize they're leaving the woman they're attracted to...frustrated.

She might be even be considering or ready to move on because she's pissed off.

The solution to all of this is actually really simple...

In fact, its easy to understand how much a woman who is really attracted to you wants you to touch her...you can feel her energy.

Whenever you meet a woman you're attracted to, you want to begin touching her from the very beginning, because touching creates and enhances the power of attraction.

Touching her (in a non-threatening, fun way) lets her know your interaction is about sexual attraction, and its not about being her friend...

I mean her friend as in a platonic way.

There's a difference between a man who's a friend and one that's good with women.

The man who's good with women instantly makes the sexual connection one of interaction and creates a strong attraction, while the unsure friendly man creates doubt, (wondering if she likes him) before he's confident to bust loose.

(When you meet a woman, go straight for her jugular...lol.)

Give her a heart warming smile, look at her right in the eyes, and let her feel your presence.

Then shake her hand, introduce yourself and let her know its all about an exchange of energy...

When you sit down and talk, eye contact is good and when she laughs, take her hand and then lightly touch her wrist, when she responds positively...

Then you deliberately move your hand slowly up towards her arm and touch her shoulder.

Then take her hand and hold it.

In fact, you can usually feel her sense of relief because she knows you're not there to play games and frustrate the heck out of her.

Like you, she doesn't want to be feeling doubt or wondering, waiting for weeks before you make a move.

Believe me, this mindset instantly puts you in a league of your own because she sees you in a different light.

A positive light of attraction...

You make the moves, lead her, and she'll follow.

She'll be thankful you're not going to frustrate her.

This puts you in control: "I'm going to gently, yet firmly lead the attraction".

You don't have to do anything taht makes her to feel pressured.

If she pulls back from an intimate touch, then that's ok, just pull back for a moment, then move gently forward so she can surrender to you, because she wants to be with a confident man.

She likes you, so what's the worse thing that can happen?

Just remember she does like you, and she is scared of rejection too, so take the attitude that she's the one who's concerned about whether or not you like her.

So be cool, and let her pick-up on the fact that you're not at all worried if she's attracted to you or not...

This my friend, is the rebel attitude that she finds very attractive and comforting to her.

Why?

She knows you aren't nervous or awkward, you're confident and firm with her.

As long as she's engaged with you, she's interested...make sense?

Even if she pushes you away, you know it's just a tease to see how you'll react.

Now this is a good time to breifly pull away (build up the sexual tension), gradually turn up the volume (amp it back up) to what you were doing before...

But this time...gently yet firmly, pull her towards you.

Look, the thing to remember is; if she likes to spend time with you, there's no doubt if she likes you or not, stop wondering and go for it.

She wants to hit it off too...so don't be afraid to touch and kiss her.

What you expect to happen, will happen.

Good sex begins in your mind, go out and celebrate the rewards of your new found confidence.

Just be yourself, take action, enjoy and have fun...

Love in Romance

Love in Romance...Strut your stuff or get off the stage!

2005-10-11T22:07:00.000+10:00

Love in Romance

Love in Romance...Part 2: Your body language...will it make or break you?

2005-10-08T11:43:00.000+10:00

Love in Romance

I really believe attraction is a two fold combination of your words and actions.

Attraction is a bit of give and take, it flows with rhythm. It takes a deep level of understanding of how and why attraction works before you'll actually begin to "get it" and put it into action.

Forget Hollywood and the corny celluloid frame-by-frame shots for now this is the real deal.

You’re about to learn the bazaar jaw-dropping, super-sexy secrets of a veteran Duck-Boy who couldn't fight his way out of a wet paper bag, yet ended up being attacked by attractive women.

I know of no subject more fascinating, more empowering, and unfortunately confusing but it doesn't have to be that way.

Given the pace of today’s world, it has never been easier for you to be powerfully persuasive and it doesn’t require good looks, a silver tongue or infallible logic.

Here's a few simple success communication tips you can use for your next sexual interaction!

“Lady Hawk Strikes With Merciful Flesh Piercing Pain!”

Dear Friend,

Call the cavalry, let’s get right down to the nitty-gritty, okay?

Today is D-day...open season, because another dead duck just fell out of the sky.

You're probably not doing the practical things on a consistant basis if you're reading this...
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Or did you just happen to drop by accident?
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Respectfully, I could go on and on about how many great life changing tips I've used in this lesson, but I don't want to bore you with all the intimate details, after all this all about you.

It’s a great story about a true hero, definitely worth a few minutes of your time.

All I can say is it's gonna be a treat, so you can check it out for yourself, right now.

You'll learn something new and have some fun..I appreciate you, so let's get into action.

I hope I haven't ruffled your feathers or pissed you off already because as brutal as the above comment may seem to you, just hang onto your tail feathers, you're in for a plucking good time.

You’re gonna get 'killed' without this knowledge...lol.

Hey I did said plucking good time, this may not sound atypical, even strange and hard to believe at first, but believe me, women make subconsious decisions within seconds of seeing you...

Ever heard the saying: "love at first sight"...well, that's not just a romantic gesture.

Fact: Those first few seconds when she has you in her sights can make or break you!

What the heck are you suppose to do when you're dead centre in full view of those cross hairs?

Well, firstly don't panick, dance around a little bit...lol.

I know it doesn't leave you with much room or margin for error because you've only got seconds to avoid getting shot down to pieces.

Ouch, now that's gotta hurt.

I'm not kidding, it might not be a Hollywood script but she is watching you like a hawk and within a few minutes of interacting with you, she'll have already formed an opinion about your sexual awareness.

Are your worthy of her attention (are your feathers slick, smooth and groomed?)

Are you on top of your game?

And are you confident as a man?

Yes or no?

Truth be known, if you don't wake up to the call of the wild within you and improve your position as a man for love in her eyes, you're doomed to drop downwards, suddenly and quickly.
Like a dead duck...

Splaaaaaaaaaattt....oh my gawd, what a mess!

You see, a hawk has just spotted you and she's plummeted from the heavens.

In other words, suck in your belly, take a deep breath and raise your chest, tighten your ass and strut like a rooster.

Huh!

Listen, her attraction is biological and driven by her almost insatiable 'animal' instincts.

Well, shoot me in the foot, intelligence has nothing to do with attraction, it isn't her choice...

But I've something else you'll want to know before you're 'picked-up' and eaten alive.

Women are in various frames of mind through out their life, it is important to understand that female behavior varies widely based on environment and who she's with.

She'll be wanting and looking for different emotional and physical aspects, including facial and body characteristics about her next possible kill...

Ooops...I mean ill-fated man.

If she's on heat, so to speak...watch out because she'll be 'sizing you up' and making decisions about whether or not you're a possible sexual partner.

All these decisions, of course aren't obvious to you...you're just an inquistive bystander minding your own business, but it's all happening behind the scenes in her subconscious.

She is mostly looking at the way you dress, move, speak and project your energy...

In other words how you can excite her because attaction is triggered by how you communicate.

Attraction is a combination of emotions, mental and physical in using your body language and voice projection (the tonal variations in your speech.)

Do you know what your body language is communicating?

Are you communicating effectively with your body and voice?

Are you saying: "hey, I'm a sexy guy, just wait till' you sink your teeth into this beast?
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Pay attention D-boy, because this is the part of the lesson that should set off the light in your head. -
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The words you're saying actually don't really matter because it's the hidden messages she's recieving, which are subliminal, she doesn't understand the process, but if you do, you're in luck. -----
Put it this way: "Are you a leader or follower?"

Look, it's okay to make mistakes to learn from them in order to enjoy more successes.

Bottom line, we all make mistakes that's part of the game but it's not about the language of words, it's how you communicate what you mean without actually saying it that matters.

All right, let me explain that in plain english just for you.

You want to be able to create an emotional sexual attraction, an emotional feeling of excitement and that's simply done by using both your tones of voice and body language.

Remember she's on autopilot, and isn't analyzing or thinking logical like you.

She is wired differently, but she's looking for and wanting to feel that you're a sexually aware, and you're a confident man.

That's the nuts and bolts, the raw deal of sexual attraction in its simplest form, so you want to be able to trigger a pleasant 'unselfish generosity' by using your body language and voice tone.

Warning, it isn't about your male ego.

Get it!

Frankly, it makes sense to learn body language because it's a crucial skill in your dating arsenal.

If you want to attract women, it'll make it a whole bunch easier for you.

Or...

You can continue to do things the hard way, and you'll be wasting your valuable time pulling your hair out in torment living in quiet desperation (like most men do).

I know you want to expereince real passion with improvement because life is too short to be average.

As a result, you're on the long and winding road that'll get you no where...fast!

In short, if you don't know whether or not you're projecting the right signals for her to 'home in' on your body language and voice tone that makes her feel sexual attraction...

You can kiss your sweet arse goodbye...peppy!

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When I first started meeting attractive sexy women, I'd get shot down and ripped to pieces at least 9 out of 10 times.

No big deal, I've the emotional battle scars to prove what I'm sharing with you isn't theory or make believe.
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After a lot of strikes to the head and body blows (let's just call it trial and error) I started to realize that words are cheap.

The true battle is when in flight, when you learn this stuff, and use your body language and voice tone, you can effectively say whatever...and I do mean anything you want.

For example:

If you're standing in a room with your arms folded and slightly leaning to one side with one leg crossed over the other what's your body language saying?

Any idea?

Well, if you knew basic body language, you'd avoid it like the plague.

On the other hand, you can stand in a room and verbally say almost nothing and women would fall over themselves trying to get to you, because they're feeling attraction.

How is this possible?

Do yourself a huge favor and learn these three D-Boy lessons so you can do it immediately and start improving your attractiveness to women:

1) Give the illusion of sexual power by holding eye contact.

It's a game of cat and mouse....or should I say chicken and rooster, duck or whatever?

Okay enough with the wise cracks. When you see an attractive woman, and she looks back at you, smile, don't get anxious, freeze-up and go all wobbly at the knees, just relax.

Smile and act casual, look back at her gently holding eye contact just a little bit longer than her before she looks away.

Whatever you do, it's a big mistake to hold eye contact for too long, I mean don't stare with a wide eyed, smirky smile like some sort of crazy killer or you'll freak her out.

I've watched plenty of guys do this...they go from one extreme to another, and women don't like it at all..makes them feel very unsafe and insecure.

At first, if you feel self-conscious, if you must lookaway as soon as she notices you looking...

Just look down for a split second, compose yourself and quickly look up again because that can give her such a jolt, and you do want to communicate sexual awareness and confidence.

Let's be absolutely clear about your frame of mind and action.

Practice holding eye contact with a woman until she looks away feelings the subtle messages while showing her you're not afraid or self-conscious about the fact that you like what you see

(although you're making it plain and obvious you're checking her out.)

Most women crave attention, so practice looking directly into the eyes of every single woman you see...and don't break eye contact or look away until after she does, this is very imporatant.

2) Project sexual awareness and self-confidence.

What is your body language saying?

Remember the example I gave you just a moment ago:

"Are you saying I'm not very confident about myself?"

Are you sending out signals that are saying:

"Don't listen to me or take anything I'm saying serious?".

Are you using the power of confident postures?

Most guys that I know who use confident gestures and postures, position themselves as babe magnets because the aura they project is of sexual awareness and confidence that says:

"Get out of my way, I'm a leader, in control of this situation and I own this space"

(The dominant male.)

Are you a chicken or a rooster?

Don't slouch, stand tall by sucking in your belly, lift your chest, hold your head up, pull back your shoulders, and arch your back...

Walk like a rooster, stay cool and relaxed, hold yourself like you're the most powerful rooster you've ever seen or heard 'croak' before.

Yeah, there is nothing wrong with acting like a rooster, you'll probably feel like you're in the spot light so don't be surprised at first, or worry about it ok.

You're confident and bold, you'll want to continue practicing your confident posture until you're comfortable because trust me, you'll attract attention from women.

Remember, women aren't interested in finding another average guy, they're dime a dozen.

You want to sizzle with almost animal , because women are attracted to rebels or guys who stand out from the crowd, who aren't afraid to be different.

Carry yourself posture like a rooster, a beastly man that's attractive because women will want to notice you and have immediate positive subconscious reactions to you, this is more important.

Your body language and environment has a huge effect on her behavior, and one of the big factors in your success is to be able to comfortably project your aura, or persona.

3) Why do all the jerks seem to get all the honeys?

Have you ever noticed the "hollywood action men" never look like they're stumped?

I mean it's uncanny isn't it, they've always got the perfect one liner and they've always got the next move planned right down to the last detail.

It's like clock work. I guess they know something you don't...and that's how to act!

They're just too cool, calm and collective even while they're under a barrage of machine gun fire and the rest of the population is being blown to kingdom come.

And have you noticed how they use slow, calculated movements, every gesture has a meaning.

Even under extreme situations, he hardly raises a sweat and rejects the idea of fidgeting or behaving nervously.

Do exactly what they do so confidently, slowing down your actions, don't startle her with nervous gestures and quick replies, stay sharp but relaxed like a kung fu master.

This makes a huge impact on how she'll perceive you because this is the language of attraction, the language of communication that your body language subtly says:

"I'm in control, and comfortable in my own skin".

This is the silent or hidden language of attraction.

In her subconscious, that's where women are attuned and triggered by attraction, so you can actually amplify this to the point where a woman you're with will attack you like a hawk.

Are you projecting your voice with sexual power?

Or are you saying "I lack confidence...with no self-esteem".

This for some reason turns women off.

Like I said earlier on, it depends on what stage in life she's at and what she is wanting sexually and relationship wise.

You want to attract beautiful women?

Ok then, you're going to play the winning game because the deck is shuffled in your favor.

Your voice is now a powerful seduction tool, so speak up, clear and with deeper tones.

Practice using your voice with confidence, use slower and deeper variations in tones as a way of expressing words, phrases and particular points of interest.

Learn to speak slower and more clearly.

Pronounce words with resonance using the diaghram from deeper down in your chest and belly.

Add a little more bass to your voice as to emphasis sexual tones, a bit like a muscial instrument (ever heard a slow jazz saxaphone or muffled trumpet riff) very layed back and sexy isn't it!

Get comfortable with hearing your voice subtly changing, use afflictions to amplify, then pause to build her excitement and create anticipation.

Listen more and talk less, most guys talk too much crap, too fast, and feel like a headless chook because they feel awkward and nervous.

Remember you're a rooster, so smile, lick your fingers and smooth over them eye brows, relax, and feel real comfortable with the mystique and tension that comes from listening.

She'll definietly think you're royality for letting her babble...so listen and pay attention.

You'll want to also stuff a sock in her mouth every now and then just to get a word in (only a figure of speech, lol, don't take this literally)

Then practice using your voice and body language to communicate you're a confident, sexually aware, and a leader or rebel (dominant male) with a cause.

Just smile and say baby, you want a cock-or-two (in other words you're a rooster not a chicken)
Take her by the hand and go have some fun...

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Love in Romance

Love in Romance...Part 1: Body language...just one look did it?

2005-09-28T22:24:00.000+10:00

Love in Romance

"Only when you've been in the deepest valley can you know how magnificent it is to be atop the highest mountain." -Richard M. Nixon -

When you know what mistakes to avoid, this allow you to focus right onto what you can control.

This shortcuts your learning curve substantially and accelerates your success radically.

Hello Friend,

How r u doing...thanks for your company, glad you could join the fun.

Are you a man of action, ready and willing to do something new and sneaky?

Are you attracting or repelling her because in the first four seconds she’ll make judgments about you.

Have I got your attention?

I thought why wouldn’t you want to know something new and interesting, plus it’d be a good opportunity to talk about the psychology of approaching and meeting women.

Use the following simple techniques and watch them change your life.

Once again...right now I want to surprise you by giving you 5 closely guarded secrets about body language…that’s today’s topic, something really useful:

If you want a woman to feel comfortable around you, there’s only one starting point?

If you want to be more persuasive, there’s only one starting point?

If you want to increase your self-image, there’s only one place to start?

If you want to get your way more often, there’s only one place to start?

If you want to be liked by more women, there’s only one place to start?

Women are different from men…it doesn’t take much to figure that one out.

Their thinking process is completely different too…often they’ve several negative feelings that mix together to form a tangled mess when they communicate with others.

The feelings can include self-esteem issues (even if she is drop dead gorgeous) she can feel she doesn’t match-up to your expectations, and she may also feel inadequate, resentment, frustration, annoyance and anger, etc.

You’ve got to be able to appeal to her actual feelings of attraction for you, even though you may have just met her only moments before.

I'm dead serious, I know that sounds like a tough act to follow but trust me, women can read a man's body language like you wouldn’t believe.

The good news is that you can do the same anywhere, you'll discover what's behind her smile...is she faking it or does she really like you?I

f you're not gifted in the physical looks department, you’d be best to listen up closely this will definitely give you a major advantage.

You might find this topic a little bit intimidating, but first impressions count a bunch, so what can you do about changing how you look.

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!

Insanity is, after all, doing the same thing day after day and expecting different results…

Plan A:

If you look scary, anything like I do...man you've got a lot of work ahead, get a hammer and chisel...its time for my world-famous instant facial remodel kit (side note: I don't recommend you try this at home).

On the brighter side, if you’re an average looking guy there's still hope for you...

Ok, you simply can't change everything about your physical appearance in the short term, unless you want to take drastic steps like plastic surgery.

That might not be an option at the moment, so let's skip plan A and go to plan B.

Plan B:

Well, if you’re a little over weight and out of shape, changing your body appearance will give you a major boost in self-esteem and confidence.

Let’s face it, in today’s society self-image is king.

The first thing a women sees revolves around your body so how you look is important because this is her first impression of you...

(I'll tell you more about how to overcome and boost your facial attractiveness in just a minute.)

So what can you do to change her perception of your body image, and how physically attractive you look?

Firstly this is straightforward and common sense really, well, you’d think so, and if you’re doing it you’re earning lots of extra points:

You must dress smart and make sure you look clean and tidy.

Personal hygiene, smell nice, look decent, get a haircut, shave, and trim that scruffy looking moustache or beard.

Make sure your breath is fresh, teeth are clean and (pearly) white, this means get rid of yellow stains; straighten teeth, etc, this will add tremendous value to your image and facial attractiveness.

Her first impression is critical, and if she likes what she sees, that means she feels comfortable around you.

Being likeable is the name of the game.

It means you're perceived as being lovable, intelligent, kind, positive, more of an attractive person, so she'll trust you.

Ok, so you’ve got the date…now what?

Here are few battle-tested techniques for maximum results.

You probably have no idea what cues and signals you’re sending.

In fact, I can guarantee you that you don't!

When you meet at a restaurant or café, choose an impressionable place with an intimate mood or ambiance.

The best place is to find a small table (smaller the better) preferably a two-seated table in the rear (way back out of the way from everyone) or in a cozy or romantic corner of the room.

You want her full attention and you got to do everything you can for her to focus on you so you can be in control, and it helps not having too many other distractions.

Pay attention this stuff works. Ideally for seating arrangements make sure she is facing you, but with her back facing everyone else so she can only see you.

Always it is much better, the best choice is to sit close beside each other (a right angle) on the right hand side of her, or next best position is directly across from her.

Now this is where body language really hits home runs.

Use your body language to make your own secret messages and have what you want at the same time being believable and compatible with her.

Early in the conversation give her plenty of space, in other words keep your body distance between each other comfortable.

As the conversation progresses, pick a moment when you feel both of you are more comfortable and position yourself closer, then lean towards her as you’re talking.

I've found out what matters and what doesn't and eye contact is crucial, do whatever you can to keep your eye level below hers and don’t break eye contact by looking up or to the left.

It creates negative or dishonest feelings.

Did you know you can send her I like you and I’m attracted to you signals, allowing her to feel completely at ease with you?

She’ll feel a lot more comfortable when you’re breaking direct eye contact by looking down instead of up because this action is connected to liking and trusting you.

When the two of you are communicating and eye contact is consistent and mirroring each other, this is really good position to be in and useful info to know.

Now for the missing link, a sneaky little technique that works like magic, it’s called exposure.

No I’m not taking about wearing a long raincoat and flashing your crown jewels in public (but if that’s what you like doing, hey go for it)...lol.

Actually, I’ve learned this from many years of experience in marketing and selling, the more often you’re in front or her, and the simple fact of the matter is being in someone’s face more often than not builds likeability.

Remember likeability is associated with looking as good as you can with what you’ve got.

Being seen regularly means feeling comfortable and so the more likeable, intelligent and attractive you appear to her.

Remember it is all about perception and that revolves around understanding human psychology, habits and behavior...

Body language, just one look did it because you've uncovered some truly amazing insights.

Love in Romance

Love in Romance...Turn up the heat, focus on your personality and bring out your magnetism.

2005-09-26T10:29:00.000+10:00

Love in Romance

Turn up the heat…focus on your personality and bring out your magnetism.

How would you rate your knowledge of what your partner likes sexually?

You know “Forgotten Love and Pleasurable Sex” gives you cutting-edge psychology by providing accurate information regarding healthy sexual communication, and the study of sexual behavior.

It’s based on personal experiences...not theory.

I want you to take one action that’ll shift your usual predictable pattern of behavior and improve your ability to persuade any woman immediately.

Dear Friend,

How r u doing…thanks for dropping by...hey r u ready for some action?

Welcome to another fun packed, educational, and informative sexuality chat with a zest for life.

If you're looking for a girlfriend, dance partner, date for Saturday night or even that special woman of your dreams…what is the one thing that can help you dramatically change your life?

If you’re excited about the opportunity to compare and contrast male and female perspectives, walk away with strategies you can use right away, then you'd be crazy to miss this incredible discussion.

Having women in your life on your own terms is extremely important to your health, success, wellbeing and overall balance in life.

If you’re like me, you’ve got to keep your wits and have a balanced perspective on things that means you don't agree to assumptions and in second-guessing.

Why do most men fail with women?

The answer is two fold because of how society tells you to behave against your natural style and what you’re been taught about women in general, dating, attraction, and relationships is just all plain wrong…

Yep, there's a good chance you're playing the losing game.

Now the good news is no matter how much you’ve been brainwashed, you can overcome the mess by learning the natural, biological attraction laws that literally forces desirable women to respect you.

You know the warm and fuzzy feelings you get when you’re alone and close to a sexy woman, well, aside from all of the things going on physiologically, you may feel as if you’re losing not only your control, but also your ability to be yourself!

Now’s the time for you to get serious, take matters into your own hands and deal only in facts, so here are some real facts…

First tip: when it comes to dating, you’ve got to command respect.

You give a bit and take it away, that means you’re in control of your urges and this attitude reflects a deep level of attraction without you having to go along with the temptation to change who you are.

Listen, I know its frustrating...

I’ve received a ton of emails on this subject and believe me I’m grateful for your feedback, but at the moment up to my eyeballs attempting to answer all these questions…

But regardless of this situation, please keep the energy growing by sending in your questions.

Whether you want a steady loving girlfriend or a harem of faithful followers, maybe you’re driving her or these women away and you don’t know why?

One of the hidden biggies is on the subject of personality, and really it is simply all about self-image and how you perceive yourself.

Shyness, doubt, etc, causes insecurity and unreliable behavior…but are you aware of the affect?

You’re probably inadvertently smothering her with too much sweet talk, praise and affection?

Being soft hearted is one thing, but the real challenge is being up against a ‘hard-headed’ woman.

This is where you can take good sound advice and learn to accept an abundance personality.

Yeah, it is a phenomenon or whatever you want to call it because an abundance personality shows the world that being the man you really are is truly the easiest way to get the woman you want!

Let me assure you…that power only comes from within, from having a healthy self-image, and from expecting to be successful with women.

Be bold and trust your manly instincts, turn-up the heat on your personality, and watch women melt.

Despite what you feel are holding you back, whether it be some lame excuse like you’re shy, wear glasses, have a big nose, or stutter when you speak…

You know what?

It doesn’t matter, and it has nothing to do with the problem of scoring hot babes.

Women want to be with a real man…

A man that makes her feel good about herself and brings out the best in her, and as unbelievably simple as it sounds, just being yourself, don’t apologize…that’s all it takes in a nutshell.

Let me explain…

It’s important to recognize that women do play a very important role in your lives, but equally important is to realize that you can choose what that role you play for yourself.

The difference between scarcity mentalities is a subtle shift in belief, but it will make all the difference in your outcomes.

Whether it's reflected in your confidence or self-assuredness, almost every woman is drawn like a magnet to a man with an abundance personality because it’s the sexiest trait a man can possess.

So how do you intensify your abundance personality?

By being honest about who you are…it shows self-respect, so you'll exude an abundance mentality of inner-confidence that’ll effortlessly says:

“I’m open and care free, no pressure with me”…this energy draws women to you like never before. Be honest with yourself about your goals, there's nothing wrong with wanting what you want.

Here’s five success tips to help boost your personality almost instantly:

1/: Pushing an issue or pressing comes from a scarcity mentality. When you believe you’ve no other option you may start to push or press an issue like if you feel the attraction with a woman is fading.

This may go against your grain but there’s no such thing as only one special woman when you accept an abundance mentality (there are lots of special women in your life who are dying to be with you.)

2/: Don't e-mail her or keep leaving messages before receiving her response. If she doesn't call you back, hey no big deal, she's not interested, it's really that simple…get over it and move on.

(And if you've gotta get drunk in order to have courage to call her, you've got deep issues that need to be addressed)

3/: Common sense yeah here's another first date no no...don't talk about your past negative experiences with women, or talk about marriage or settling down and having lots of kids.

It's ok to be honest telling her you're not into one night stands or not much of a ‘player’, it might score you some points, but she might not be in the mood to be pinned down with a long-term commitment right off the bat.

Keep cool, you’ve just met her, so let her settle in have some fun and get comfortable with you, while you’re the one that dictates the pace at which the relationship moves.

4/: Don't get desperate, in other words don’t overdose on her, give her space and don't forget about your buddies no matter how much you're into her.

If a woman suggests doing something that conflicts with your monthly 'male bonding' (poker night, ha, ha ha ha) let her know you can't make it because you're hanging out with the boys.

She'll see that you're anything but desperate, and this sets a tone for the future when you won't want to spend every single waking minute with her.

Plus, no matter what they may say, women like it when men act like men.

5:/ If you want a mate, forget about convenience dates. I wouldn’t recommend going out with a woman just so you don't have to go out alone, especially if you’ve no interest in pursuing anything more with her.

If you do so, you just may lose a real opportunity to meet your next girlfriend.

And since you're looking for a mate, never keep dating a woman simply for companionship or sex. Cut your losses the minute you know she's not for you…you'll be doing yourself a big favor.

In conclusion…refine your mental game.

Making the first move isn't a hard thing to do with practice it becomes like second wind.

Practice your abundance personality to stir her imagination in some wild ways, feed her the desire to you want in having good times, but don’t make her feel like she’ll always take second place to your ego and your lifestyle.

You’ve all the tools you want to score big time, now you just want to use them to your advantage.

Stay in each conversation a little longer and concentrate on listening more by asking open-ended questions.

For example:

"What made you consider becoming (insert whatever in here?)" this allows her to feel like you're interested and giving her your attention while still allowing you to dictate the flow of the conversation.

Feel free to talk about yourself, but do it without bragging and don't go overboard.

An easy way to talk about yourself is to tell funny stories about what a character you are, but make sure they're quirky and actually exciting.

It shows you can laugh at yourself and you’ve confidence, so you don’t have to make-up excuses or apologize by your behavior.

She should accept you for who you, and if you're not embarrassed, then she shouldn't be either.

You certainly don’t want a woman who wants to change you, if she does, then she should find somebody else and so should you.

Make sense?

Thanks for reading.

Talk soon, relax, enjoy, have fun and turn up the heat...

More power to you, or should I say more pleasure?

Love in Romance

Love in Romance...Command respect, why wouldn't you want to be a leader?

2005-09-19T12:30:00.000+10:00

Love in Romance

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-Betty Reese -

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Love in Romance...Keep it simple, love, power and sex...trick or treat?

2005-08-12T08:22:00.000+10:00

Love in Romance

Use these simple techniques and you'll not be able to deny yourself success once you're set in motion, you've the power with intention and purpose.

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Well, you've got to be almost 'hell-bend' with a clear vision of the (target) woman/women you want, so there's absolutely nothing standing between you and success (the love of your life!)

Motivation, what does a kiss taste like...trick or treat?

I'm not going to try and convince you otherwise because you can choose to have it or pass it up.

All you need to know now is whether your daily actions will bring you closer or farther away from your intention and desired outcome...

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Are you ready to put the pedal to the metal?

I want you to remember success is a process, not a race.

One of the first steps is to know where you are going, start building a base to launch from, learn, make mistakes and then success comes itself.

If you want all the hot sexy ladies you can handle, that’s great, but you need a system.

You need to follow a model that already works, no need re-inventing the wheel.

This is the simple part of the system that helps you to calculate or measure the result, it'll help you put one foot in front of the other.

Here’s the second thing you need to know…

Start simple, you need to crawl first before you can walk and then run...the best way is don’t get bogged down or caught in the trap of trying to be too "technical"

The essence of action is to pull you closer, rather than you push you away.

Pushing only limits your control over what comes your way.

Action is pulling you closer which gives you total control over what you get.

Why would you want to push yourself away?

The step you'll learn in this lesson is that keeping it simple makes it fun and interesting, yeah but...your (input) must be intensely clear.

That means your decision-making-process will either propell you towards your target or you're moving farther away from the result (out-put).

Do you know what your target or goal is?

That's why you cleaned up the clutter in your mind and room, etc, you must be intensely clear in your mind and the space around you...make sense?

Decide now what you want to do in order to clarify your goals (input) it's based on reality, you've the solid facts to put into practice which produce the (output) end results you want.

You simply do this by giving yourself a clear target (a map or guide) because your brain needs to make the connecting part, (rubber that meets the road) which requires feedback with precise instructions or commands to take affirmitive action...

Or you'll stall, just stand there idle (confused not knowing what to do) in default mode?

Remember earlier I suggested that you must crawl before you run?

I also suggested that you shouldn’t make the mistake of wasting time not knowing what you’re doing?

Your eyes are you guide and the feedback mechanism, they work just like (trigger) for a camera in that they lock onto a target taking "live" snap-shots...

The images are stored with feedback, then hard-wired (the images go back into the lab (your mind) to be processed combining all the images), frame-by-frame giving you the final result.

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In this case, you'll want a "snap-shot" with an even stronger image, so you'll need to slow the whole process down.

How do you do that?

Easy...just write out a detailed description, that way you've captured all the images onto paper.

Ok you've got yourself images which is your guided purpose based on reality, so now what is it about a woman that you find attractive?

Write out everything you want to see in her including:

You want to clearly see everything in the "snap-shots" of your mind; (her body shape, lips, colour of hair, eyes, skin, shape of face, nose, all her delicious features, etc) to the finest of details...

This is the preparation for your image of her which will be modelled into a solid, real life living and breathing beautiful woman because you've a clear and emotionally charged connection.

You're excited and driven...

All the chemical reactions in your body are fueling your desires, driving and pulling you closer to the next step which is to decide when it is you truly want to meet her...what's the time frame?

Is the vision for a short or a longer time frame?

You need "X" amount of time for the exposure, right?

Well, you also need to know whether you'll be dating many women or specifically just one special lady?

You've got the picture...

Now imagine yourself with the woman/women of your dreams, step-by-step give your mind the intention and pupose (input), write out everything, take your time and do a throughly good job.

Love in Romance

Love in Romance...Now make a list of all the things about yourself you'd like to change.

2005-07-07T15:24:00.000+10:00

Love in Romance

Hi Friend,

How are you doing...

You're restless, I can feel it.

Yes, I know you've thought about it, dreamed about...and envisioned yourself with sexy women that only comes when you've the freedom to think, do, go wherever you like, whenever you like.
Hmm...do you need take a good hard look at what you're doing!

No matter what you've done in the past it just hasn't got you any closer to that wonderful and unburdened lifestyle you've so vividly imagined:

Are you fed up with chasing every woman that comes along?
Are you ready to get serious and make some real changes?

Play the dating game and you'll continue to struggle along indefinitely or join that select group of womanizers...because what you're going to do now is determine your own personal success.

Now the fun part begins...it's time to break some rules.

Let me start this conversation by saying...if you're playing by the same rules ever other male is following, then you've already found your specific position or spot in life...make sense?

Make a list of all the dating game rules you've been following day in - day out, up until this point in your life and you'll immediately see why everyone is running around chasing their own tail.

These things about yourself are what you'd like to change and you're actually wanting to put these steps into unstoppable action right now...not just talk about it or else you've no advantage.
Talk is cheap...let me explain what I mean by that statement.

Here's a key truth:

Dating and relationships have clearly definied roles and structures set out for you to follow...

Now to be fair, I don't care what you think you know about women in general, or how many enlightening books, tapes or seminars you've read or listened to on these topics.

If you want to really succeed with women or life...you've got to be your own rebel.

With a cause of action.

You gotta stand out from the crowd..

Yep, be your own man and think independently.

On the other hand, if you want to be the sacrifical lamb and love being led to the slaughter, then by all means continue following the predetermined dating game rules of society and good luck.

I absolutely guarantee you'll want to experience a rebellious attitude sooner rather than later, it's powerful and unlike anything you've seen before, and your sex life will never be the same after you experience it.

You see, what I discovered through my own personal experiences (having been in relationships, crashing and burning, getting back in the saddle and involved all over again), my relationships with women actually continued to get worse...not better.

I figured the dating game is like playing poker...it's a game you cannot win.

No matter how well you play it, how much better you get at it, and no matter how many women you have sex with while you're playing...

The dating game and adultery always leads to failure in the form of stress, rejection, anxiety, heartache, pain or disillusionment...

Now I hope you're reading this next sentence with clear vision googles because you're brain is about to splatter all over the place...ready!

If you play the dating game according to the rules, regulations and structures we're been taught growing up with you'll never win....did you get it loud and clear or do you need clarification?

What I've discovered is to really transform your quality of sex life and your relationship with women, you've got to actually break out from the mind-set of the dating game limitations....

Break away entirely and start playing your own new game without any rules and regulations.

Rules were made to be broken...right?

I'm talking about a breakthrough in consciousness that leads to massive changes in your daily sexual experience. I'm talking about major "outside the box" thinking and living.

For example:

If you aren't very confident, write it down:

"I want to be confident because I'm an outgoing person."

"I trust myself to get things done because I make friends easily."

"I feel at home in any social situation"

(If your own definition of what it means to you to be confident is something different, then use your own version, but this will do as a general example.)

Add to your list of good points a positive opposite in respect of everything about yourself you'd like to change, and visualize yourself behaving in those new, more positive ways.

See yourself acting with confidence in social situations, at work, at home, at leisure.... anywhere and everywhere you go, or you would like to go.

Every chance you get, practice behaving in these new, exciting ways, each time picturing your existing good points first, to give you confidence.

Any time you feel as if you're falling back into your old ways, remind yourself of something you do well.

It doesn't matter if it's relevant or not!

The important thing is just to remind yourself of something you're already good at. You've learned to do that well, and you take pleasure in it – you can learn to do this, too.

This way, instead of beating yourself up because you're a normal, imperfect human being, you can actually derive a lot of satisfaction and sheer joy from self-improvement.

That means your self-esteem will automatically get better – because YOU are.

Your Next Step....

You can see for yourself what a difference a positive self-image and a healthy self-esteem can make to the level of self confidence you enjoy, and therefore what you can achieve in every area of your life, both professional and personal.

So far you've found out:-

• Why it's so important that you like yourself
• How to banish paralyzing fears of things that aren't even going to happen
• How to reassert control of your emotions
• Why negative talk and rules sap your confidence and motivation
• How to make learning new things much more enjoyable and fun
• How an easy trick you can use to get the new day off to a flying start
• How a split-second way you can regain your confidence in any trying situation
• Why simple words make a massive difference in your life

And much, much more because you been reading the rebel secrets of the super-confident, and making them your own.

Love in Romance

Love in Romance...You can't move foward if you're taking two steps backwards...

2005-06-05T15:20:00.000+10:00

Love in Romance

Dear Friend,

Today you and I are going to make a new mind-set plan for life.

Sometimes you are strong, other times you are weak.

Sometimes you make the decisions and take the actions that lead you to your desired outcomes, other times you just can't decide and your actions (or inactions) lead you to failure.

No doubt you're wanting to grow as an individual so these insights will benefit you.

And yes, I might be crazy blabbering too much but I'm prepeared to give you this valuable information for your knowledge and without asking for anything in return but I know they will thank you for sharing.

Let me show you how straightforward it is to build on your strengths, using the skills you have right now.

Are you ready because you can't move forward until you let go...

Let go of what?

There's a saying that time heals all wounds...well, in theory that may happen but in the real world nothing happens until you get your mind fixed and get the monkey off your back!

You gotta let go of your past, and the only way you can do that is to forget about past mistakes, let go of all negative feelings, and forgive others...

And even more importantly yourself.

It doesn't take a genius to figure out that most people who hope to play the dating game or make any sense out of their realtionships wind up failing miserably:

The only thing that matters is why relationships fail?
I mean, what is it that can so easily make or break you?

You can't move foward until you let it go, and the only way that you can do that's to let go of all bad feelings, and forgive.

Sometimes there's some action that you have to take before you can forgive.

It may involve removing yourself from a situation where the hurt will go on happening if you don't stop it.

For example:

If you're in an abusive relationship, you can't easily consign each episode of hurt to the past, where it belongs, because the likelihood is that it's going to be repeated.

That doesn't mean you need to go on being a victim.

There are many forms of abuse within relationships.

Some involve physical violence, others mental or emotional cruelty, uncontrollable anger, constant savage criticism, drink or substance abuse, or infidelity.

If you're in a relationship that's causing pain, you need to find a way of dealing with it.

Sometimes that can involve counseling, and help for an abusive partner to change. Other times, the only way to end it is to walk away from the relationship.

Dealing with abusive relationships is a deep and profound issue, there are many varaible that I won't be covering in depth because it's really a personal one-on-one situation...

If you need some help, you'll find organizations online or in the phone book that can help you, and lots of forums and self-help groups online where you can talk to or benefit from the experiences of others who've been through the same thing.

The important thing is that once you have dealt with it, in whatever way you choose (just enduring it is not a helpful option because without some kind of help, abusive relationships get worse, not better)

The only course of action that will heal the hurt and let you regain your confidence and self-esteem is to be happy and to forgive.

Forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to take them back.

That might not be appropriate, for either of you.

What it means is that you let the past go.

You give up all recriminations.

You release your hold on anger, hurt and bitterness.

You don't dwell on what's hurt you. You don't talk about it, think about it, worry about it or fret over it. You look forward, with a positive expectation of good things happening.

No matter who or what has ever hurt you in the past, they can only go on doing so in the present and the future if you let them.

Thoughts of past betrayals, wrongs and injuries are like the vampires in horror stories – they can't come in unless you give permission.

You don't have to give permission.

You can totally refuse to entertain them.

You can banish them for ever.... and the only way to do that's through forgiveness.

Focus On Your Strengths It might be a kind of hangover from schooldays, but most people are far better at listing their shortcoming than their good points. In some ways, that's not totally a bad thing.

We all have shortcomings, and we can't do anything about improving them until we realize what they are.

No matter in how many ways you might want to improve yourself, though, focusing on your shortcomings won't actually help you in the slightest.

In fact, the more you focus on, say, having an accent you don't like, the more you're going to notice it, and the worse you're going to feel about yourself.

Self-improvement is a very useful area to work on.

There are few, if any, people in the world who couldn't benefit from it...

There's a way to improve yourself that works much better than beating yourself up about some fault you have...

...or think you have (the lower your self esteem, the more faults you believe you have and the better your self-image, the easier it is to recognize and correct the issues you really have).

Before you even start to think about your weak points, make a list of all your strong points...

All the skills and character qualities that people compliment you one.

The talents that you're working to improve, your determination to make the most of what you've got, and the potential that only you know of, because the world's not seen it yet.

Yours truly,

Love in Romance

There are 2 reasons why it's important that you take control of your environment!

2005-05-05T15:17:00.000+10:00

"A life of reaction is a life of slavery, intellectually and spiritually. One must fight for a life of action, not reaction."-Rita Mae Brown-

Dear Valued Friend,

Thanks for your valuable time, you're much appreciated.

There are 2 reasons why it's important that you take control of your environment:
1. Living in a state of chaos saps your energy. It's depressing, which lowers your energy level to begin with, and whatever you're trying to do, you can't find what you need to do it..

That wastes even more energy in hunting for things you want to use, and causes deep frustration and annoyance with yourself when you can't find them.

If your home environment's like this, it can cause conflict with other family members or reluctance to invite your friends around.

if your work environment's the same, it cuts your productivity and gets you into trouble. Either way, it badly hurts your image of yourself;

2. It makes you feel completely disempowered. As long as it seems to be a task too great for you to put right, it's controlling you. It makes you feel as if you're helpless in the face of it – and that causes tremendous, and continuing, damage to your self-esteem.

After all, how can you believe you can tackle all the things you have or want to do if your opinion of yourself's so low that you believe you can't even sort out the chaos of the room you're in? Well, now for another piece of good news.

Not only can you put the situation right, but the moment that you start to do you'll begin to take control of your environment – all the aspects of your environment.

That means your home, your work environment, and all the world around you, including your relationship.

What's more, you can treat the whole thing as an enjoyable adventure, one that can give an even greater boost to your confidence and self-esteem.

First, take a look around...do you have a problem with the clutter in the first place?

Ask yourself: "how would you actually like your room to be?" Picture it in your mind.

What do you want it to look like if you hadn't all that clutter to contend with?

Would you move the furniture around, paint the walls another color, put a different texture on the ceiling, or get another carpet...

Do you actually like the room (the uncluttered version of it, that is) just the way it is?

The moment you've made that decision, you've put yourself in the drivers seat back in command ready to take control.

Simply removing clutter for it's own sake's has no value and besides its a boring shit job.

Getting rid of clutter now because you've a vision of the room the way you want to see it's quite another matter.

Now you're being focused on the task at hand doing something that's creative, something towards a goal you want to reach....this is a great disipline that carries over into other areas too.

It's your choice...but you knew that already so make a firm commitment to spend a set amount of time on actively achieving, recahing and doing your goals each day.

You also know that one of the main reasons why visualization is so powerful is because it helps you to organize your mind.

Having said that you decide on when you want to do it (might I suggest, when you've awaken or after you've had your evening meal and before you settle down to go to sleep).

Now back to removing the clutter issue. If you find you're enjoying it (you'll be surprised just how empowering an experience this is) you'll probably want to spend more time, that's fine.

Be absolutely ruthless with the stuff you find.

Everything that's lying around has to be oraganized and have a proper place found for it, or place it in storage out of sight or last resort, sell or throw it out because its not being of benefit.

It doesn't matter what it is, it has to justify it's continuing place in your life and your environment. Your self-esteem depends on it. Go for it!

Forgive and forget, move on and let live...it's important to absorb this lesson because you've got to stop judging yourself and others (and if you haven't, you might want to re-read this again).

The chances are you still have a few deep rooted feelings which takes a lot more of your away giving power and authority to others.

In fact it takes far more effort to resist forgiving people who have hurt you than resisting it, yes this isn't an easy thing to do but your leap of faith is a reward that will liberate your soul.

Ok, I'm starting to sound like a preacher...but you get my drift dude!

Often, in the first place it's being hurt by someone that has caused a gaping big hole to exist.

You then force yourself into a corner, disrepect and dissociate (become distant or seperate) from yourself with a lack of self-esteem and sometimes it can almost seem like a betrayal of yourself to let the hurt and anger continue to ruin your life.

You already know thats true from your own life experience before you learned that lesson.

That's a very understandable way to feel but it won't ever make you happy.

In fact, the longer you go on giving hurt yourself and giving anger room to grow from within your heart, the deeper you can be drawn into hatinf yourself.

And you certainly don't need that stress in your life...the more it will spread unhappiness.

Trust me, your days will get darker and you'll like shit knowing you can be a lot happier.

If you want to like yourself, be happy and have true self-confidence, the biggest, most effective step that you can take is to forgive, completely and forever, everyone who's ever hurt you.

It takes a real man with a big (rebel yell) attitude to stand up and be counted, but happiness and bitterness cannot co-exist together. Whichever one you focus on will overcome the other.

Listen, whoever's was small enough to hurt you, did it to hurt themselves...your no longer living in the past, so step into the moment and live for now.

Will you try to reach your dreams or go for it?

2005-04-27T14:25:00.000+10:00

"Love is an attempt to change a piece of your dream into reality.” - Theodor Reik –

Is it worthwhile and/or challenging enough for you to achieve your goal, which is it?

Experience has taught me that nothing in life worth having is easy, it doesn’t exist and doesn't feel right!

Dear Valued Friend,

If your ability to clear the path and take back control over your life is really important to you...then thanks for your company, you've come to the right place.

Let me ask you something: "will you try to reach your dreams or will you go for it?"

That's not suppose to be a trick question but keep reading and you'll understand why?

One thing I've discovered for certain (working in the trenches, so to speak) is the way you feel about life, how you feel is transferred or expressed and people pick-up on your energy, whether they're ware of it or even understand the pyschological process...it definitely happens.

You've got to clear your path (make room for sunshine) what I mean you've got to clear your thoughts.

You do this by taking action...learn this effective way to unclutter your thoughts and also your (surroundings) because your environment stimulates and compells you for action or inaction.

On the other hand it's causes a lot of heartache and damage too, a sign that you lack self-esteem because a cluttered environment is a reflection of your thoughts at that point in time...

You may have reached a point of crisis, frustration, anger or where chaos reigns.

It often gets that way because you think that kind of set-up's all that you deserve, and, once it does, the task of finding a better place for things, or simply junking them, seems overwhelming.

It's a vicious circle...the more out of hand clutter gets, the greater the damage it's inflicting on your self-esteem, and the lower your self-esteem, the more out of control or worse the situation gets.

And the harder it becomes for you to do anything about it.

Most people in this situation simply don't believe that they can put things right.

If you're seeing yourself as a failure, you've basically set yourself up to not be able to take the ineffective action that you want in order to move towards success, even though you might know exactly how to do it.

• You'll not want to make friends because you'll expect them not to like you

• You'll avoid making decisions because you'll expect to make the wrong choice

• You'll do your best to avoid being noticed because being ineffective means attracting criticism

• You'll not reach your dreams because you alraedy know that you're bound to fail...

You can only act in ways that are positively consistent with the image of yourself.

This is the image you hold in your own mind and you just can't act in any other way.

The good news is that your self-image and your self-esteem are closely related to your self-confidence and what you can achieve and these variable are all within your own control.

This may be a new concept to you.

Many people have silently suffered in an environment that has taught to see themselves as victims and to believe they can't succeed because of one reason or another...

For example:

They've come from a poor background and will never amount to much
Their parents didn't encourage them to think independently
They've had a lot of pressure on them from peer groups, siblings, or their class-mates bullied them
They've been the victim of incest or a violent crime
Unfortunately you get the picture, thats just the tip of the ice-berg the list goes on...

Well, if that's what you've been taught, just take a moment to absorb this concept!

If you're not as happy in this moment, it's probably because you've let other people, or the circumstances dictate and control you.

That's a natural thing to do for anyone who doesn't know what you're learning now.

You can be a successful, charismatic person as soon as you change what you're thinking and begin doing what makes you believe you can be.

It's not just good enough to believe, you've got to have focus and purpose, taking action to back up your belief.

Focus on the now and move with each step looking forward.

Many people seem to spend their whole lives looking backwards.

Most of them aren't the most positive people you can meet anyway because they cling onto their past but everyone's past is littered with failure and mistakes...but who cares about your past?

It doesn't mean you're stupid for making mistakes because failure is often the most important element or lesson to move towards a successful result.

You see, whatever you can do, you've had to learn, and the way you learn is by doing things.

You can't always be successful the first time, that's why you learn from what works and what doesn't. Once you learn from a mistake, the best way you can deal with it is just remember how to do it again and forget what didn't work.

Its dead set easy...mistakes they serve you in useful ways when you forget them and move on.

Left to itself, your self-image will happily focus on your successes, and that's how it empowers you to more of the same.

The more success you experience, even in small daily doses, reinforces your confidence in the relevant thoughts and actions.

The more you tune in to your self-image, the more you'll focus on success and the higher your self-esteem and self-confidence will rise.

If you continue to dwell on your mistakes, the opposite will happen...your self image will project or amplify one of failure, inhibiting every effort you make towards success.

Remember your past does not represent your future so you've always known less than you do now. You know more today than you knew yesterday.

Even your most practiced everyday skills you've refined and honed them more today then the previous day before.

Whenever you think of yourself in the past, let that image go, relax, even if your circumstances seemed much happier then.

Your future is still brighter, your relationship more solid and your work much more rewarding because you're seeing a more accomplished and successful person than you were.

Focus on the more competent and skillful person that you are now...today, and the successful person that you will be tomorrow.

Just by taking the steps life teaches you, you've taken responsibility for yourself and where you're heading.

That's the beginning of real fun, success and happiness...your lasting kind.

Self respect...are you happy, energetic, charismatic and successful as you'd like to be?

2005-04-05T14:07:00.000+10:00

Dear Valued Friend,

Welcome back and thanks for your valuable time, hang onto your seat, this ride is bumpy and wild.

Fair warning: In this series, I'm going to be brutually honest with you and tell-it-like-it-is.

You may like my style or you may not...hey, all I'm saying is don't let that blind you.

I'm not here to please everyone so if you take offence at being exposed to the truth, that's your problem not mine, just click the back button and be on your way to fairytale land...

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! But then again you already know that was a lot of bullshit, wasn't it?

Believe me I'm not wanting to be loud or in your face, yet I trust you understand all-in-all, it's in making the connection with a sense of belonging, after all this is all about you...my friend.

If you're still here...well, you and me are part of a group now, thanks I appreciate you.

I want you to ask yourself a question: "how can you improve yourself...your energy and personal relationships at the level of happiness with success in everything you do?

The choice is yours...right:

Do you know what it takes to make yourself happy, charismatic, and confident?
Don't worry, you're not alone...but do you think, a new style, clothes, partner, lessons in how to talk or act will do the trick?
Do you think that respect and confidence goes hand in hand with success?
Do you think you're not successful until you've made a lot more money?
Do you believe people with those qualities were simply born with them, and that you weren't, so you can't even hope to have them?

Well then stick around and I'll give you the good news because guess what?

Absolutely none of that stuff's true!

You can have all the money in the world, fancy car, house, clothes, shoes, hairstyle etc; and you still won't radiate your true character...unless the fire comes within your belly and from deep inside your heart.

Your head (thoughts and emotions) are all aligned to your vision of who you are.

You can have the most passionate and loving partner with an intense sexual relationship, but it will all fall apart and run into challenges if you don't like yourself.

It doesn't matter how you walk and talk and move around if you're not confident.

Your own opinion of yourself will still show though, anyway and your partner will pick-up on it.

Confidence is a mixture of inter-personal variables and it doesn't come without success because you're struggling to be successful if you can't be confident...its' kinda like a catch 22 situation.

On the other hand, self-confidence is the ingredient that blends success... just ask anyone who's started out with nothing and achieved their dreams!

As for being born with all these qualities....yes, you have been blessed with them all.

In fact, everybody is. It's dealing with the world that fills your mind with wrong ideas and inhibitions that obscure your vision, and steals your dream.

All you have to do is just rebuild your confidence and spontaneity. The way to sparkle is to have self-confidence – and to have self-confidence you have to build a positive self-image and high self-esteem.

Those three things are very closely connected, but they often confused because the difference between them is subtle:-

• Your self-image is the way you see yourself - attractive, successful, creative, generous, etc.;

• Your self-esteem is how you feel about yourself, and that's based totally on your self-image.

Iif you like the way you see yourself, you've a high self-esteem, and if you don't like the way you see yourself there's no way you're going to feel good about who you are...you're faking it

• Your self-confidence determines how you act and it's based entirely on action and reaction that is to say the things your self-image and your self-esteem are expressing who you are

You simply cannot act in any way that's inconsistent with your self-image and the level of your self-esteem. It's just not possible because you're in a constant state of resistence and confusion.

• If you see yourself as generous, in reality you can't ignore giving your time and energy, you can't act like an arsehole. It would be inconsistent with the real person you see yourself to be...

• If you see yourself as successful, you'll have the confidence to go for what you want, and you'll take any short-term failures in your stride, learning lessons from them and doing better next time

• If you see yourself as likeable, you'll make friends easily because you'll have the confidence that people like you and will welcome being friends with you.

• If you see yourself as resourceful, you'll deal with difficulties easily, and then welcome them as an opportunity to keep learning because you enjoy using your problem-solving skills...

Sophisticated and interesting things to know about winking...

2005-03-23T10:11:00.000+11:00

Interesting things to know, wink, wink!

Dear Valued Friend,

How are you doing...

Whammm, bammm thank you mam...ouch...that's gotta hurt.

Lol...don't look now or take it personally but winking at women can be hazardous to your health.

What should I do now, Johni?

Even though this is an example knowing how vulnerable you are, how discouraged you feel guessing...I could easily take advantage of how you feel and start feeding you a bunch of hype.

You know it and I know it.

No matter what level of success you think you're at, you're still making a big mistake.

How do I know?

Because I did the same thing! I was exactly where you're today. I thought I understood women. Knew what they wanted. How they wanted to be contacted. Oh, I was so smart…or so I thought.

But I was flat out wrong.

Then there is the usual song-and-dance, but I wouldn't want that to happen to you, and I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want that to happen either, so I shouldn't joke about it because what you're about to uncover is the true power to create attraction.

Well, my main focus is giving you more and more good, practical and common sense information so get your arse of the ground and jump back on the saddle partner, it's important to regain your confidence, move on, don't look back...

Your aim is to stop guessing, it's time to stamp your authority on the situation.

"By the way, a very cool counter offer to being slapped silly is to smile profusely blowing her hot-air imaginary sweet candy kisses, so you'll drive her heart into "fairy like flutter" she'll feel all wobbly at the knees, confused and absolutely crazy with submission for you."

Ha! Ha! Ha! I couldn't help myself... if you believe that, you'd believe just about any cockin' B.S story.

Ok, hope I didn't shock you...but how can I serve you better?

Yes...how'd you like real authority and power over yourself with bold confidence, power over women, and power over just about everything else in your life?

We're going to explore filling in those gaps, your intention (goal, objective, target, purpose, plan or desire) all these words may sound different but the end result is the same.

You might be thinking if this invisible force inside you able to create whatever it is you want?

Your intention is what created you in the first place, therefore it drives you.

If you think about it, you were actually concieved by the very act of intention. Your father's sperm had only one purpose (that's to fertilize), driven to your mother's egg.

Ok enough about biology and reproduction for the moment... I think you get my drift!

At first your intention, this energy surrounds you, then becomes part of your aura as it creates a whole new atmosphere about you...a dimension with profound results and people will sense it.

It's the 'feeling' of being on fire and powerful...and you make things happen easily. Without your intention set, you're like a dead duck floating on water...you won't do very much at all.

Your intention is set in motion by having a focus on an outcome or result that you really want.

How do you set yourself an outcome?

Preferably you make sure it's positively burning inside you with feverish excitement and passion...you determine what you want and when you want it and then you go for it!

You can kick start the process by focusing on the end result, yes, by visualizing.

Yeah everyone and their dog talks about visualization, and it's true you do make mental images in your mind. But the missing link is you must think about it until you feel it with a deep level of emotion in order to manifest the energy.

You've got to feel (and believe the end result is unmistakably true) ie; being successful when you visualize, if you don't, you won't get the positive results you want.

You enchance this further by saying positive words, this is bascially what you'd call affirmations because this simple (yet invisible) action sets into motion energy that works favorably for you now and in the future.

For example:

"I want to learn about such and such..."

"I want to understand it really well..."

"I want to ingrain in my unconscious mind the ability to do this now and for the rest of my life..."
"I want to be very skilled at this, that's my intention..."

Now I'm not talking about "wishy-washy" type of effort...no...I'm talking intense concentration.

If you want something to material from nothing (out of thin air) that's an idea in the making, so you've got to create a flash point by giving it immense concentration and focused energy of natural forces because of resistance and gravity to overcome.

You have to focus on the end result until it burns into your inner (subconscious) mind.

This build-up of raw energy, call it concentrated internal pressure, literally forces your mind to jump a spark like from one battery terminal to another releasing a...flash or rush of power.

But of course the time frame is determined by the amount of energy you've applied.

Think of it like when you're traveling in your car...you want to go faster...what do you do?

Well, you put your foot down on the pedal, the more juice you pump into the fuel injectors the greater the flash point and combustion created, the speed is increased and the time in reaching your destination is faster.

In the next series of very important, informative power-packed lessons, I'm here to help you, and together we're going to accomplish the goals that we set forth.

But having said that...you can also screw it up so that it won't work well for you because one of the most powerful keys to intention is to be totally honest with yourself that means not lying.

Even the most seemingly unimportant white lie will have negative effects and prevent you from building momentum.

Think of your intention as a measure of both how clear you are with what you want and how clean your communication is with your own subconscious mind.

What message are you sending your subconscious mind when you lie?

That you do not trust it to bring you what you want?

That you have to manipulate and be out of integrity in order to get what you want?

This clouds your message to your inner-self and slows or even puts a brakes on outcomes from happening.

Your conscious mind is an incredible instrument, its main job is to choose what you want and then your subconscious/unconscious mind goes about bringing you what you want.

Positive or negative...you make the choice and set the wheels in motion.

If you want to be a powerful, then set your wheels down on the path of least resistance until you have what you want.

The key is to eliminate anything and everything that is less than truthful as soon as you can.

This includes "white lies", exaggeration, promises you don't intend to keep - you get the picture.
By eliminating the untruths, you'll be able to ask for and get what you want from your inner-self or what is referrred to as your unconscious mind.

You'll use affirmations or words that you say to guide your behavior and action.

Your intention, you'll find will become your attitude, and life will gladly reward you.

I urge you not to waste your time waiting?

If you haven't done so already, it is extremely important that you start reading the lessons that I've given you as well as listening to the audio conversations between myself and my partner.

This is because the package that you received as of now includes the most powerful basic skills that you must absorb in order to understand the rest of the advanced resources.

The one thing that I can't emphasize enough is that while most men are thinking about their next sexual encounter (a huge bonuses as a member) you will be taught to use every single technique as a golden opportunity for more sex...anytime!

Go ahead and read the latest installment of Five Manuals now and I'll give you an update on the rest of the resource library, including the extra added bonuses a.s.a.p.

Thanks and remember the word ease-of-use (it gives you flexibility with a lot of room to swing) because you're always in total control of how wildly you use your tool and how you access the data...lol.

Keep winning the number crunchin' game...wink, wink.

It's basically seamless as well as to your advantage, get it and reap the rewards but strike when the iron is hot...because whatever you do, get into action fast that way you simply can't fail!