Love in Romance...Part 1: Body language...just one look did it?

Love in Romance

"Only when you've been in the deepest valley can you know how magnificent it is to be atop the highest mountain." -Richard M. Nixon -

When you know what mistakes to avoid, this allow you to focus right onto what you can control.

This shortcuts your learning curve substantially and accelerates your success radically.

Hello Friend,

How r u doing...thanks for your company, glad you could join the fun.

Are you a man of action, ready and willing to do something new and sneaky?

Are you attracting or repelling her because in the first four seconds she’ll make judgments about you.

Have I got your attention?

I thought why wouldn’t you want to know something new and interesting, plus it’d be a good opportunity to talk about the psychology of approaching and meeting women.

Use the following simple techniques and watch them change your life.

Once again...right now I want to surprise you by giving you 5 closely guarded secrets about body language…that’s today’s topic, something really useful:

• If you want a woman to feel comfortable around you, there’s only one starting point?




• If you want to be more persuasive, there’s only one starting point?




• If you want to increase your self-image, there’s only one place to start?




• If you want to get your way more often, there’s only one place to start?




• If you want to be liked by more women, there’s only one place to start?

Women are different from men…it doesn’t take much to figure that one out.

Their thinking process is completely different too…often they’ve several negative feelings that mix together to form a tangled mess when they communicate with others.

The feelings can include self-esteem issues (even if she is drop dead gorgeous) she can feel she doesn’t match-up to your expectations, and she may also feel inadequate, resentment, frustration, annoyance and anger, etc.

You’ve got to be able to appeal to her actual feelings of attraction for you, even though you may have just met her only moments before.

I'm dead serious, I know that sounds like a tough act to follow but trust me, women can read a man's body language like you wouldn’t believe.

The good news is that you can do the same anywhere, you'll discover what's behind her smile...is she faking it or does she really like you?I

f you're not gifted in the physical looks department, you’d be best to listen up closely this will definitely give you a major advantage.

You might find this topic a little bit intimidating, but first impressions count a bunch, so what can you do about changing how you look.

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!

Insanity is, after all, doing the same thing day after day and expecting different results…

Plan A:

If you look scary, anything like I do...man you've got a lot of work ahead, get a hammer and chisel...its time for my world-famous instant facial remodel kit (side note: I don't recommend you try this at home).

On the brighter side, if you’re an average looking guy there's still hope for you...

Ok, you simply can't change everything about your physical appearance in the short term, unless you want to take drastic steps like plastic surgery.

That might not be an option at the moment, so let's skip plan A and go to plan B.

Plan B:

Well, if you’re a little over weight and out of shape, changing your body appearance will give you a major boost in self-esteem and confidence.

Let’s face it, in today’s society self-image is king.

The first thing a women sees revolves around your body so how you look is important because this is her first impression of you...

(I'll tell you more about how to overcome and boost your facial attractiveness in just a minute.)

So what can you do to change her perception of your body image, and how physically attractive you look?

Firstly this is straightforward and common sense really, well, you’d think so, and if you’re doing it you’re earning lots of extra points:

You must dress smart and make sure you look clean and tidy.

• Personal hygiene, smell nice, look decent, get a haircut, shave, and trim that scruffy looking moustache or beard.




• Make sure your breath is fresh, teeth are clean and (pearly) white, this means get rid of yellow stains; straighten teeth, etc, this will add tremendous value to your image and facial attractiveness.

Her first impression is critical, and if she likes what she sees, that means she feels comfortable around you.

Being likeable is the name of the game.

It means you're perceived as being lovable, intelligent, kind, positive, more of an attractive person, so she'll trust you.

Ok, so you’ve got the date…now what?

Here are few battle-tested techniques for maximum results.

You probably have no idea what cues and signals you’re sending.

In fact, I can guarantee you that you don't!

When you meet at a restaurant or café, choose an impressionable place with an intimate mood or ambiance.

The best place is to find a small table (smaller the better) preferably a two-seated table in the rear (way back out of the way from everyone) or in a cozy or romantic corner of the room.

You want her full attention and you got to do everything you can for her to focus on you so you can be in control, and it helps not having too many other distractions.

Pay attention this stuff works. Ideally for seating arrangements make sure she is facing you, but with her back facing everyone else so she can only see you.

Always it is much better, the best choice is to sit close beside each other (a right angle) on the right hand side of her, or next best position is directly across from her.

Now this is where body language really hits home runs.

Use your body language to make your own secret messages and have what you want at the same time being believable and compatible with her.

Early in the conversation give her plenty of space, in other words keep your body distance between each other comfortable.

As the conversation progresses, pick a moment when you feel both of you are more comfortable and position yourself closer, then lean towards her as you’re talking.

I've found out what matters and what doesn't and eye contact is crucial, do whatever you can to keep your eye level below hers and don’t break eye contact by looking up or to the left.

It creates negative or dishonest feelings.

Did you know you can send her I like you and I’m attracted to you signals, allowing her to feel completely at ease with you?

She’ll feel a lot more comfortable when you’re breaking direct eye contact by looking down instead of up because this action is connected to liking and trusting you.

When the two of you are communicating and eye contact is consistent and mirroring each other, this is really good position to be in and useful info to know.

Now for the missing link, a sneaky little technique that works like magic, it’s called exposure.

No I’m not taking about wearing a long raincoat and flashing your crown jewels in public (but if that’s what you like doing, hey go for it)...lol.

Actually, I’ve learned this from many years of experience in marketing and selling, the more often you’re in front or her, and the simple fact of the matter is being in someone’s face more often than not builds likeability.

Remember likeability is associated with looking as good as you can with what you’ve got.

Being seen regularly means feeling comfortable and so the more likeable, intelligent and attractive you appear to her.

Remember it is all about perception and that revolves around understanding human psychology, habits and behavior...

Body language, just one look did it because you've uncovered some truly amazing insights.

Love in Romance