Love in Romance...Part 2: Your body language...will it make or break you?

Love in Romance

I really believe attraction is a two fold combination of your words and actions.

Attraction is a bit of give and take, it flows with rhythm. It takes a deep level of understanding of how and why attraction works before you'll actually begin to "get it" and put it into action.

Forget Hollywood and the corny celluloid frame-by-frame shots for now this is the real deal.

You’re about to learn the bazaar jaw-dropping, super-sexy secrets of a veteran Duck-Boy who couldn't fight his way out of a wet paper bag, yet ended up being attacked by attractive women.

I know of no subject more fascinating, more empowering, and unfortunately confusing but it doesn't have to be that way.

Given the pace of today’s world, it has never been easier for you to be powerfully persuasive and it doesn’t require good looks, a silver tongue or infallible logic.

Here's a few simple success communication tips you can use for your next sexual interaction!

“Lady Hawk Strikes With Merciful Flesh Piercing Pain!”

Dear Friend,

Call the cavalry, let’s get right down to the nitty-gritty, okay?

Today is D-day...open season, because another dead duck just fell out of the sky.

You're probably not doing the practical things on a consistant basis if you're reading this...
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Or did you just happen to drop by accident?
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Respectfully, I could go on and on about how many great life changing tips I've used in this lesson, but I don't want to bore you with all the intimate details, after all this all about you.

It’s a great story about a true hero, definitely worth a few minutes of your time.

All I can say is it's gonna be a treat, so you can check it out for yourself, right now.

You'll learn something new and have some fun..I appreciate you, so let's get into action.

I hope I haven't ruffled your feathers or pissed you off already because as brutal as the above comment may seem to you, just hang onto your tail feathers, you're in for a plucking good time.

You’re gonna get 'killed' without this knowledge...lol.

Hey I did said plucking good time, this may not sound atypical, even strange and hard to believe at first, but believe me, women make subconsious decisions within seconds of seeing you...

Ever heard the saying: "love at first sight"...well, that's not just a romantic gesture.

Fact: Those first few seconds when she has you in her sights can make or break you!

What the heck are you suppose to do when you're dead centre in full view of those cross hairs?

Well, firstly don't panick, dance around a little bit...lol.

I know it doesn't leave you with much room or margin for error because you've only got seconds to avoid getting shot down to pieces.

Ouch, now that's gotta hurt.

I'm not kidding, it might not be a Hollywood script but she is watching you like a hawk and within a few minutes of interacting with you, she'll have already formed an opinion about your sexual awareness.

Are your worthy of her attention (are your feathers slick, smooth and groomed?)

Are you on top of your game?

And are you confident as a man?

Yes or no?

Truth be known, if you don't wake up to the call of the wild within you and improve your position as a man for love in her eyes, you're doomed to drop downwards, suddenly and quickly.
Like a dead duck...

Splaaaaaaaaaattt....oh my gawd, what a mess!

You see, a hawk has just spotted you and she's plummeted from the heavens.

In other words, suck in your belly, take a deep breath and raise your chest, tighten your ass and strut like a rooster.

Huh!

Listen, her attraction is biological and driven by her almost insatiable 'animal' instincts.

Well, shoot me in the foot, intelligence has nothing to do with attraction, it isn't her choice...

But I've something else you'll want to know before you're 'picked-up' and eaten alive.

Women are in various frames of mind through out their life, it is important to understand that female behavior varies widely based on environment and who she's with.

She'll be wanting and looking for different emotional and physical aspects, including facial and body characteristics about her next possible kill...

Ooops...I mean ill-fated man.

If she's on heat, so to speak...watch out because she'll be 'sizing you up' and making decisions about whether or not you're a possible sexual partner.

All these decisions, of course aren't obvious to you...you're just an inquistive bystander minding your own business, but it's all happening behind the scenes in her subconscious.

She is mostly looking at the way you dress, move, speak and project your energy...

In other words how you can excite her because attaction is triggered by how you communicate.

Attraction is a combination of emotions, mental and physical in using your body language and voice projection (the tonal variations in your speech.)

Do you know what your body language is communicating?

Are you communicating effectively with your body and voice?

Are you saying: "hey, I'm a sexy guy, just wait till' you sink your teeth into this beast?
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Pay attention D-boy, because this is the part of the lesson that should set off the light in your head. -
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The words you're saying actually don't really matter because it's the hidden messages she's recieving, which are subliminal, she doesn't understand the process, but if you do, you're in luck. -----
Put it this way: "Are you a leader or follower?"

Look, it's okay to make mistakes to learn from them in order to enjoy more successes.

Bottom line, we all make mistakes that's part of the game but it's not about the language of words, it's how you communicate what you mean without actually saying it that matters.

All right, let me explain that in plain english just for you.

You want to be able to create an emotional sexual attraction, an emotional feeling of excitement and that's simply done by using both your tones of voice and body language.

Remember she's on autopilot, and isn't analyzing or thinking logical like you.

She is wired differently, but she's looking for and wanting to feel that you're a sexually aware, and you're a confident man.

That's the nuts and bolts, the raw deal of sexual attraction in its simplest form, so you want to be able to trigger a pleasant 'unselfish generosity' by using your body language and voice tone.

Warning, it isn't about your male ego.

Get it!

Frankly, it makes sense to learn body language because it's a crucial skill in your dating arsenal.

If you want to attract women, it'll make it a whole bunch easier for you.

Or...

You can continue to do things the hard way, and you'll be wasting your valuable time pulling your hair out in torment living in quiet desperation (like most men do).

I know you want to expereince real passion with improvement because life is too short to be average.

As a result, you're on the long and winding road that'll get you no where...fast!

In short, if you don't know whether or not you're projecting the right signals for her to 'home in' on your body language and voice tone that makes her feel sexual attraction...

You can kiss your sweet arse goodbye...peppy!

You gotta start to use these all-important skills and understanding of how body language works. -
When I first started meeting attractive sexy women, I'd get shot down and ripped to pieces at least 9 out of 10 times.

No big deal, I've the emotional battle scars to prove what I'm sharing with you isn't theory or make believe.
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After a lot of strikes to the head and body blows (let's just call it trial and error) I started to realize that words are cheap.

The true battle is when in flight, when you learn this stuff, and use your body language and voice tone, you can effectively say whatever...and I do mean anything you want.

For example:

If you're standing in a room with your arms folded and slightly leaning to one side with one leg crossed over the other what's your body language saying?

Any idea?

Well, if you knew basic body language, you'd avoid it like the plague.

On the other hand, you can stand in a room and verbally say almost nothing and women would fall over themselves trying to get to you, because they're feeling attraction.

How is this possible?

Do yourself a huge favor and learn these three D-Boy lessons so you can do it immediately and start improving your attractiveness to women:

1) Give the illusion of sexual power by holding eye contact.

It's a game of cat and mouse....or should I say chicken and rooster, duck or whatever?

Okay enough with the wise cracks. When you see an attractive woman, and she looks back at you, smile, don't get anxious, freeze-up and go all wobbly at the knees, just relax.

Smile and act casual, look back at her gently holding eye contact just a little bit longer than her before she looks away.

Whatever you do, it's a big mistake to hold eye contact for too long, I mean don't stare with a wide eyed, smirky smile like some sort of crazy killer or you'll freak her out.

I've watched plenty of guys do this...they go from one extreme to another, and women don't like it at all..makes them feel very unsafe and insecure.

At first, if you feel self-conscious, if you must lookaway as soon as she notices you looking...

Just look down for a split second, compose yourself and quickly look up again because that can give her such a jolt, and you do want to communicate sexual awareness and confidence.

Let's be absolutely clear about your frame of mind and action.

Practice holding eye contact with a woman until she looks away feelings the subtle messages while showing her you're not afraid or self-conscious about the fact that you like what you see

(although you're making it plain and obvious you're checking her out.)

Most women crave attention, so practice looking directly into the eyes of every single woman you see...and don't break eye contact or look away until after she does, this is very imporatant.

2) Project sexual awareness and self-confidence.

What is your body language saying?

Remember the example I gave you just a moment ago:

"Are you saying I'm not very confident about myself?"

Are you sending out signals that are saying:

"Don't listen to me or take anything I'm saying serious?".

Are you using the power of confident postures?

Most guys that I know who use confident gestures and postures, position themselves as babe magnets because the aura they project is of sexual awareness and confidence that says:

"Get out of my way, I'm a leader, in control of this situation and I own this space"

(The dominant male.)

Are you a chicken or a rooster?

Don't slouch, stand tall by sucking in your belly, lift your chest, hold your head up, pull back your shoulders, and arch your back...

Walk like a rooster, stay cool and relaxed, hold yourself like you're the most powerful rooster you've ever seen or heard 'croak' before.

Yeah, there is nothing wrong with acting like a rooster, you'll probably feel like you're in the spot light so don't be surprised at first, or worry about it ok.

You're confident and bold, you'll want to continue practicing your confident posture until you're comfortable because trust me, you'll attract attention from women.

Remember, women aren't interested in finding another average guy, they're dime a dozen.

You want to sizzle with almost animal , because women are attracted to rebels or guys who stand out from the crowd, who aren't afraid to be different.

Carry yourself posture like a rooster, a beastly man that's attractive because women will want to notice you and have immediate positive subconscious reactions to you, this is more important.

Your body language and environment has a huge effect on her behavior, and one of the big factors in your success is to be able to comfortably project your aura, or persona.

3) Why do all the jerks seem to get all the honeys?

Have you ever noticed the "hollywood action men" never look like they're stumped?

I mean it's uncanny isn't it, they've always got the perfect one liner and they've always got the next move planned right down to the last detail.

It's like clock work. I guess they know something you don't...and that's how to act!

They're just too cool, calm and collective even while they're under a barrage of machine gun fire and the rest of the population is being blown to kingdom come.

And have you noticed how they use slow, calculated movements, every gesture has a meaning.

Even under extreme situations, he hardly raises a sweat and rejects the idea of fidgeting or behaving nervously.

Do exactly what they do so confidently, slowing down your actions, don't startle her with nervous gestures and quick replies, stay sharp but relaxed like a kung fu master.

This makes a huge impact on how she'll perceive you because this is the language of attraction, the language of communication that your body language subtly says:

"I'm in control, and comfortable in my own skin".

This is the silent or hidden language of attraction.

In her subconscious, that's where women are attuned and triggered by attraction, so you can actually amplify this to the point where a woman you're with will attack you like a hawk.

Are you projecting your voice with sexual power?

Or are you saying "I lack confidence...with no self-esteem".

This for some reason turns women off.

Like I said earlier on, it depends on what stage in life she's at and what she is wanting sexually and relationship wise.

You want to attract beautiful women?

Ok then, you're going to play the winning game because the deck is shuffled in your favor.

Your voice is now a powerful seduction tool, so speak up, clear and with deeper tones.

Practice using your voice with confidence, use slower and deeper variations in tones as a way of expressing words, phrases and particular points of interest.

Learn to speak slower and more clearly.

Pronounce words with resonance using the diaghram from deeper down in your chest and belly.

Add a little more bass to your voice as to emphasis sexual tones, a bit like a muscial instrument (ever heard a slow jazz saxaphone or muffled trumpet riff) very layed back and sexy isn't it!

Get comfortable with hearing your voice subtly changing, use afflictions to amplify, then pause to build her excitement and create anticipation.

Listen more and talk less, most guys talk too much crap, too fast, and feel like a headless chook because they feel awkward and nervous.

Remember you're a rooster, so smile, lick your fingers and smooth over them eye brows, relax, and feel real comfortable with the mystique and tension that comes from listening.

She'll definietly think you're royality for letting her babble...so listen and pay attention.

You'll want to also stuff a sock in her mouth every now and then just to get a word in (only a figure of speech, lol, don't take this literally)

Then practice using your voice and body language to communicate you're a confident, sexually aware, and a leader or rebel (dominant male) with a cause.

Just smile and say baby, you want a cock-or-two (in other words you're a rooster not a chicken)
Take her by the hand and go have some fun...

By the way, is there something else you'd like covered?

Love in Romance