Love in Romance...Now make a list of all the things about yourself you'd like to change.
Love in Romance
Hi Friend,
How are you doing...
You're restless, I can feel it.
Yes, I know you've thought about it, dreamed about...and envisioned yourself with sexy women that only comes when you've the freedom to think, do, go wherever you like, whenever you like.
Hmm...do you need take a good hard look at what you're doing!
No matter what you've done in the past it just hasn't got you any closer to that wonderful and unburdened lifestyle you've so vividly imagined:
Now the fun part begins...it's time to break some rules.
Let me start this conversation by saying...if you're playing by the same rules ever other male is following, then you've already found your specific position or spot in life...make sense?
Make a list of all the dating game rules you've been following day in - day out, up until this point in your life and you'll immediately see why everyone is running around chasing their own tail.
These things about yourself are what you'd like to change and you're actually wanting to put these steps into unstoppable action right now...not just talk about it or else you've no advantage.
Talk is cheap...let me explain what I mean by that statement.
Here's a key truth:
Dating and relationships have clearly definied roles and structures set out for you to follow...
Now to be fair, I don't care what you think you know about women in general, or how many enlightening books, tapes or seminars you've read or listened to on these topics.
If you want to really succeed with women or life...you've got to be your own rebel.
With a cause of action.
You gotta stand out from the crowd..
Yep, be your own man and think independently.
On the other hand, if you want to be the sacrifical lamb and love being led to the slaughter, then by all means continue following the predetermined dating game rules of society and good luck.
I absolutely guarantee you'll want to experience a rebellious attitude sooner rather than later, it's powerful and unlike anything you've seen before, and your sex life will never be the same after you experience it.
You see, what I discovered through my own personal experiences (having been in relationships, crashing and burning, getting back in the saddle and involved all over again), my relationships with women actually continued to get worse...not better.
I figured the dating game is like playing poker...it's a game you cannot win.
No matter how well you play it, how much better you get at it, and no matter how many women you have sex with while you're playing...
The dating game and adultery always leads to failure in the form of stress, rejection, anxiety, heartache, pain or disillusionment...
Now I hope you're reading this next sentence with clear vision googles because you're brain is about to splatter all over the place...ready!
If you play the dating game according to the rules, regulations and structures we're been taught growing up with you'll never win....did you get it loud and clear or do you need clarification?
What I've discovered is to really transform your quality of sex life and your relationship with women, you've got to actually break out from the mind-set of the dating game limitations....
Break away entirely and start playing your own new game without any rules and regulations.
Rules were made to be broken...right?
I'm talking about a breakthrough in consciousness that leads to massive changes in your daily sexual experience. I'm talking about major "outside the box" thinking and living.
For example:
If you aren't very confident, write it down:
"I want to be confident because I'm an outgoing person."
"I trust myself to get things done because I make friends easily."
"I feel at home in any social situation"
(If your own definition of what it means to you to be confident is something different, then use your own version, but this will do as a general example.)
Add to your list of good points a positive opposite in respect of everything about yourself you'd like to change, and visualize yourself behaving in those new, more positive ways.
See yourself acting with confidence in social situations, at work, at home, at leisure.... anywhere and everywhere you go, or you would like to go.
Every chance you get, practice behaving in these new, exciting ways, each time picturing your existing good points first, to give you confidence.
Any time you feel as if you're falling back into your old ways, remind yourself of something you do well.
It doesn't matter if it's relevant or not!
The important thing is just to remind yourself of something you're already good at. You've learned to do that well, and you take pleasure in it – you can learn to do this, too.
This way, instead of beating yourself up because you're a normal, imperfect human being, you can actually derive a lot of satisfaction and sheer joy from self-improvement.
That means your self-esteem will automatically get better – because YOU are.
Your Next Step....
You can see for yourself what a difference a positive self-image and a healthy self-esteem can make to the level of self confidence you enjoy, and therefore what you can achieve in every area of your life, both professional and personal.
So far you've found out:-
• Why it's so important that you like yourself
• How to banish paralyzing fears of things that aren't even going to happen
• How to reassert control of your emotions
• Why negative talk and rules sap your confidence and motivation
• How to make learning new things much more enjoyable and fun
• How an easy trick you can use to get the new day off to a flying start
• How a split-second way you can regain your confidence in any trying situation
• Why simple words make a massive difference in your life
And much, much more because you been reading the rebel secrets of the super-confident, and making them your own.
Love in Romance
Hi Friend,
How are you doing...
You're restless, I can feel it.
Yes, I know you've thought about it, dreamed about...and envisioned yourself with sexy women that only comes when you've the freedom to think, do, go wherever you like, whenever you like.
Hmm...do you need take a good hard look at what you're doing!
No matter what you've done in the past it just hasn't got you any closer to that wonderful and unburdened lifestyle you've so vividly imagined:
- Are you fed up with chasing every woman that comes along?
- Are you ready to get serious and make some real changes?
Now the fun part begins...it's time to break some rules.
Let me start this conversation by saying...if you're playing by the same rules ever other male is following, then you've already found your specific position or spot in life...make sense?
Make a list of all the dating game rules you've been following day in - day out, up until this point in your life and you'll immediately see why everyone is running around chasing their own tail.
These things about yourself are what you'd like to change and you're actually wanting to put these steps into unstoppable action right now...not just talk about it or else you've no advantage.
Talk is cheap...let me explain what I mean by that statement.
Here's a key truth:
Dating and relationships have clearly definied roles and structures set out for you to follow...
Now to be fair, I don't care what you think you know about women in general, or how many enlightening books, tapes or seminars you've read or listened to on these topics.
If you want to really succeed with women or life...you've got to be your own rebel.
With a cause of action.
You gotta stand out from the crowd..
Yep, be your own man and think independently.
On the other hand, if you want to be the sacrifical lamb and love being led to the slaughter, then by all means continue following the predetermined dating game rules of society and good luck.
I absolutely guarantee you'll want to experience a rebellious attitude sooner rather than later, it's powerful and unlike anything you've seen before, and your sex life will never be the same after you experience it.
You see, what I discovered through my own personal experiences (having been in relationships, crashing and burning, getting back in the saddle and involved all over again), my relationships with women actually continued to get worse...not better.
I figured the dating game is like playing poker...it's a game you cannot win.
No matter how well you play it, how much better you get at it, and no matter how many women you have sex with while you're playing...
The dating game and adultery always leads to failure in the form of stress, rejection, anxiety, heartache, pain or disillusionment...
Now I hope you're reading this next sentence with clear vision googles because you're brain is about to splatter all over the place...ready!
If you play the dating game according to the rules, regulations and structures we're been taught growing up with you'll never win....did you get it loud and clear or do you need clarification?
What I've discovered is to really transform your quality of sex life and your relationship with women, you've got to actually break out from the mind-set of the dating game limitations....
Break away entirely and start playing your own new game without any rules and regulations.
Rules were made to be broken...right?
I'm talking about a breakthrough in consciousness that leads to massive changes in your daily sexual experience. I'm talking about major "outside the box" thinking and living.
For example:
If you aren't very confident, write it down:
"I want to be confident because I'm an outgoing person."
"I trust myself to get things done because I make friends easily."
"I feel at home in any social situation"
(If your own definition of what it means to you to be confident is something different, then use your own version, but this will do as a general example.)
Add to your list of good points a positive opposite in respect of everything about yourself you'd like to change, and visualize yourself behaving in those new, more positive ways.
See yourself acting with confidence in social situations, at work, at home, at leisure.... anywhere and everywhere you go, or you would like to go.
Every chance you get, practice behaving in these new, exciting ways, each time picturing your existing good points first, to give you confidence.
Any time you feel as if you're falling back into your old ways, remind yourself of something you do well.
It doesn't matter if it's relevant or not!
The important thing is just to remind yourself of something you're already good at. You've learned to do that well, and you take pleasure in it – you can learn to do this, too.
This way, instead of beating yourself up because you're a normal, imperfect human being, you can actually derive a lot of satisfaction and sheer joy from self-improvement.
That means your self-esteem will automatically get better – because YOU are.
Your Next Step....
You can see for yourself what a difference a positive self-image and a healthy self-esteem can make to the level of self confidence you enjoy, and therefore what you can achieve in every area of your life, both professional and personal.
So far you've found out:-
• Why it's so important that you like yourself
• How to banish paralyzing fears of things that aren't even going to happen
• How to reassert control of your emotions
• Why negative talk and rules sap your confidence and motivation
• How to make learning new things much more enjoyable and fun
• How an easy trick you can use to get the new day off to a flying start
• How a split-second way you can regain your confidence in any trying situation
• Why simple words make a massive difference in your life
And much, much more because you been reading the rebel secrets of the super-confident, and making them your own.
Love in Romance
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