Love in Romance...Do you really know how to frustrate women?

Love in Romance

"My biggest problem is what to do about all the things I can't do anything about."

- Ashleigh Brilliant -

In a world vastly filled with all sorts of energy...that spark, that chemistry, and that feeling of pure lust begins in the form of thoughts and emotions.

When highly charged people search for 'sexy play mates' to interact with...

You're either wanting to register a stimulating connection, be it visual or physical, right?

Because women instantly pick up on what you're feeling inside. If your touch is light, chances are you'll not connect well.

If your touch has plenty of sexual charge, but it's put together in the wrong way, you'll probably bomb out, too.

So what's a horny man to do?

Dear Lifestyler,

How are you doing...thanks for participating in today's hip shooting discussion, you're much appreciated.

Do you have something puzzling you?

Do you get nervous when you even think about approaching a women?

What's bugging you or troubling you?

Here's your chance to spill your guts and maybe get an answer to your question.

Ok..."Do you really know how to frustrate a woman?

Huh!

To discover the answer read on...

Let's dive right in, but before you go any further, let me ask you a personal question.

Are you afraid to hurt a woman's feelings and/or disappoint her?

Firstly, it's all in the connection, and it's the kind of mindset that's going to win you hearts, plenty of sexual encounters, short or long term relationships.

The reason why I'm asking is because when you meet a woman who is attracted to you, if you put off the inevitable, you'll end up playing stupid games (and then making up excuses to why you couldn't get it together)...

I mean you've got your eye on this cutie, she's hot and attractive, but are you making her wait in anticipation on your first move...

Now creating sexual tension can be a good thing, of course it all depends on your expectation, the belief that this woman is attracted to you.

If you give her the opportunity to spend time with you, then you must expect her to seize that opportunity.

She'll pick up on this belief, translate it to confidence, and feel attraction for you...so now you've got her steaming with desire...

Your antena is up and she's picking-up these signals from you!

Sound familiar?

Basically if you're not making the first move, you're telling her: "I'm in doubt so I'll hold back from doing anything physical with you (ie; touching, holding hands, or kissing) because I'm not sure if you like me or not?

If you're thinking like this, don't worry, you're not alone.

Let me explain...

You see, a lot of men feel exactly like that...like they're trapped in a role that seems out of their control.

Its like a balancing act...

They're juggling the ball trying to be nice, funny and sexy all at the same time.

They're afraid to initiate contact because they aren't sure and in turn, she picks-up on this and begins to wonder if you're really attracted to her because you won't initiate contact...

This drives her crazy!

Why?

Well, most women look to a man for leadership, and they want to have fun, lol.

Yeah, just a cliche' huh.

There's truth in it though, especially when her man is exciting, and isn't afraid to "break loose."

If you don't break loose, what you wind up with is a really hot woman looking else where for some action because she's frustrated!

She's waiting, and silently begging you to do something.

Usually, she won't initiate physical contact with you unless you make the first move.

Some guys just don't get it, they take weeks, even months before they realize they're leaving the woman they're attracted to...frustrated.

She might be even be considering or ready to move on because she's pissed off.

The solution to all of this is actually really simple...

In fact, its easy to understand how much a woman who is really attracted to you wants you to touch her...you can feel her energy.

Whenever you meet a woman you're attracted to, you want to begin touching her from the very beginning, because touching creates and enhances the power of attraction.

Touching her (in a non-threatening, fun way) lets her know your interaction is about sexual attraction, and its not about being her friend...

I mean her friend as in a platonic way.

There's a difference between a man who's a friend and one that's good with women.

The man who's good with women instantly makes the sexual connection one of interaction and creates a strong attraction, while the unsure friendly man creates doubt, (wondering if she likes him) before he's confident to bust loose.

(When you meet a woman, go straight for her jugular...lol.)

Give her a heart warming smile, look at her right in the eyes, and let her feel your presence.

Then shake her hand, introduce yourself and let her know its all about an exchange of energy...

When you sit down and talk, eye contact is good and when she laughs, take her hand and then lightly touch her wrist, when she responds positively...

Then you deliberately move your hand slowly up towards her arm and touch her shoulder.

Then take her hand and hold it.

In fact, you can usually feel her sense of relief because she knows you're not there to play games and frustrate the heck out of her.

Like you, she doesn't want to be feeling doubt or wondering, waiting for weeks before you make a move.

Believe me, this mindset instantly puts you in a league of your own because she sees you in a different light.

A positive light of attraction...

You make the moves, lead her, and she'll follow.

She'll be thankful you're not going to frustrate her.

This puts you in control: "I'm going to gently, yet firmly lead the attraction".

You don't have to do anything taht makes her to feel pressured.

If she pulls back from an intimate touch, then that's ok, just pull back for a moment, then move gently forward so she can surrender to you, because she wants to be with a confident man.

She likes you, so what's the worse thing that can happen?

Just remember she does like you, and she is scared of rejection too, so take the attitude that she's the one who's concerned about whether or not you like her.

So be cool, and let her pick-up on the fact that you're not at all worried if she's attracted to you or not...

This my friend, is the rebel attitude that she finds very attractive and comforting to her.

Why?

She knows you aren't nervous or awkward, you're confident and firm with her.

As long as she's engaged with you, she's interested...make sense?

Even if she pushes you away, you know it's just a tease to see how you'll react.

Now this is a good time to breifly pull away (build up the sexual tension), gradually turn up the volume (amp it back up) to what you were doing before...

But this time...gently yet firmly, pull her towards you.

Look, the thing to remember is; if she likes to spend time with you, there's no doubt if she likes you or not, stop wondering and go for it.

She wants to hit it off too...so don't be afraid to touch and kiss her.

What you expect to happen, will happen.

Good sex begins in your mind, go out and celebrate the rewards of your new found confidence.

Just be yourself, take action, enjoy and have fun...

Love in Romance