Love in Romance...Part 1: Body language...just one look did it?

Love in Romance

"Only when you've been in the deepest valley can you know how magnificent it is to be atop the highest mountain." -Richard M. Nixon -

When you know what mistakes to avoid, this allow you to focus right onto what you can control.

This shortcuts your learning curve substantially and accelerates your success radically.

Hello Friend,

How r u doing...thanks for your company, glad you could join the fun.

Are you a man of action, ready and willing to do something new and sneaky?

Are you attracting or repelling her because in the first four seconds she’ll make judgments about you.

Have I got your attention?

I thought why wouldn’t you want to know something new and interesting, plus it’d be a good opportunity to talk about the psychology of approaching and meeting women.

Use the following simple techniques and watch them change your life.

Once again...right now I want to surprise you by giving you 5 closely guarded secrets about body language…that’s today’s topic, something really useful:

• If you want a woman to feel comfortable around you, there’s only one starting point?




• If you want to be more persuasive, there’s only one starting point?




• If you want to increase your self-image, there’s only one place to start?




• If you want to get your way more often, there’s only one place to start?




• If you want to be liked by more women, there’s only one place to start?

Women are different from men…it doesn’t take much to figure that one out.

Their thinking process is completely different too…often they’ve several negative feelings that mix together to form a tangled mess when they communicate with others.

The feelings can include self-esteem issues (even if she is drop dead gorgeous) she can feel she doesn’t match-up to your expectations, and she may also feel inadequate, resentment, frustration, annoyance and anger, etc.

You’ve got to be able to appeal to her actual feelings of attraction for you, even though you may have just met her only moments before.

I'm dead serious, I know that sounds like a tough act to follow but trust me, women can read a man's body language like you wouldn’t believe.

The good news is that you can do the same anywhere, you'll discover what's behind her smile...is she faking it or does she really like you?I

f you're not gifted in the physical looks department, you’d be best to listen up closely this will definitely give you a major advantage.

You might find this topic a little bit intimidating, but first impressions count a bunch, so what can you do about changing how you look.

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!

Insanity is, after all, doing the same thing day after day and expecting different results…

Plan A:

If you look scary, anything like I do...man you've got a lot of work ahead, get a hammer and chisel...its time for my world-famous instant facial remodel kit (side note: I don't recommend you try this at home).

On the brighter side, if you’re an average looking guy there's still hope for you...

Ok, you simply can't change everything about your physical appearance in the short term, unless you want to take drastic steps like plastic surgery.

That might not be an option at the moment, so let's skip plan A and go to plan B.

Plan B:

Well, if you’re a little over weight and out of shape, changing your body appearance will give you a major boost in self-esteem and confidence.

Let’s face it, in today’s society self-image is king.

The first thing a women sees revolves around your body so how you look is important because this is her first impression of you...

(I'll tell you more about how to overcome and boost your facial attractiveness in just a minute.)

So what can you do to change her perception of your body image, and how physically attractive you look?

Firstly this is straightforward and common sense really, well, you’d think so, and if you’re doing it you’re earning lots of extra points:

You must dress smart and make sure you look clean and tidy.

• Personal hygiene, smell nice, look decent, get a haircut, shave, and trim that scruffy looking moustache or beard.




• Make sure your breath is fresh, teeth are clean and (pearly) white, this means get rid of yellow stains; straighten teeth, etc, this will add tremendous value to your image and facial attractiveness.

Her first impression is critical, and if she likes what she sees, that means she feels comfortable around you.

Being likeable is the name of the game.

It means you're perceived as being lovable, intelligent, kind, positive, more of an attractive person, so she'll trust you.

Ok, so you’ve got the date…now what?

Here are few battle-tested techniques for maximum results.

You probably have no idea what cues and signals you’re sending.

In fact, I can guarantee you that you don't!

When you meet at a restaurant or café, choose an impressionable place with an intimate mood or ambiance.

The best place is to find a small table (smaller the better) preferably a two-seated table in the rear (way back out of the way from everyone) or in a cozy or romantic corner of the room.

You want her full attention and you got to do everything you can for her to focus on you so you can be in control, and it helps not having too many other distractions.

Pay attention this stuff works. Ideally for seating arrangements make sure she is facing you, but with her back facing everyone else so she can only see you.

Always it is much better, the best choice is to sit close beside each other (a right angle) on the right hand side of her, or next best position is directly across from her.

Now this is where body language really hits home runs.

Use your body language to make your own secret messages and have what you want at the same time being believable and compatible with her.

Early in the conversation give her plenty of space, in other words keep your body distance between each other comfortable.

As the conversation progresses, pick a moment when you feel both of you are more comfortable and position yourself closer, then lean towards her as you’re talking.

I've found out what matters and what doesn't and eye contact is crucial, do whatever you can to keep your eye level below hers and don’t break eye contact by looking up or to the left.

It creates negative or dishonest feelings.

Did you know you can send her I like you and I’m attracted to you signals, allowing her to feel completely at ease with you?

She’ll feel a lot more comfortable when you’re breaking direct eye contact by looking down instead of up because this action is connected to liking and trusting you.

When the two of you are communicating and eye contact is consistent and mirroring each other, this is really good position to be in and useful info to know.

Now for the missing link, a sneaky little technique that works like magic, it’s called exposure.

No I’m not taking about wearing a long raincoat and flashing your crown jewels in public (but if that’s what you like doing, hey go for it)...lol.

Actually, I’ve learned this from many years of experience in marketing and selling, the more often you’re in front or her, and the simple fact of the matter is being in someone’s face more often than not builds likeability.

Remember likeability is associated with looking as good as you can with what you’ve got.

Being seen regularly means feeling comfortable and so the more likeable, intelligent and attractive you appear to her.

Remember it is all about perception and that revolves around understanding human psychology, habits and behavior...

Body language, just one look did it because you've uncovered some truly amazing insights.

Love in Romance

Love in Romance...Turn up the heat, focus on your personality and bring out your magnetism.

Love in Romance

Turn up the heat…focus on your personality and bring out your magnetism.

How would you rate your knowledge of what your partner likes sexually?

You know “Forgotten Love and Pleasurable Sex” gives you cutting-edge psychology by providing accurate information regarding healthy sexual communication, and the study of sexual behavior.


It’s based on personal experiences...not theory.

I want you to take one action that’ll shift your usual predictable pattern of behavior and improve your ability to persuade any woman immediately.

Dear Friend,

How r u doing…thanks for dropping by...hey r u ready for some action?

Welcome to another fun packed, educational, and informative sexuality chat with a zest for life.

If you're looking for a girlfriend, dance partner, date for Saturday night or even that special woman of your dreams…what is the one thing that can help you dramatically change your life?

If you’re excited about the opportunity to compare and contrast male and female perspectives, walk away with strategies you can use right away, then you'd be crazy to miss this incredible discussion.

Having women in your life on your own terms is extremely important to your health, success, wellbeing and overall balance in life.

If you’re like me, you’ve got to keep your wits and have a balanced perspective on things that means you don't agree to assumptions and in second-guessing.

Why do most men fail with women?

The answer is two fold because of how society tells you to behave against your natural style and what you’re been taught about women in general, dating, attraction, and relationships is just all plain wrong…

Yep, there's a good chance you're playing the losing game.

Now the good news is no matter how much you’ve been brainwashed, you can overcome the mess by learning the natural, biological attraction laws that literally forces desirable women to respect you.

You know the warm and fuzzy feelings you get when you’re alone and close to a sexy woman, well, aside from all of the things going on physiologically, you may feel as if you’re losing not only your control, but also your ability to be yourself!

Now’s the time for you to get serious, take matters into your own hands and deal only in facts, so here are some real facts…

First tip: when it comes to dating, you’ve got to command respect.

You give a bit and take it away, that means you’re in control of your urges and this attitude reflects a deep level of attraction without you having to go along with the temptation to change who you are.

Listen, I know its frustrating...

I’ve received a ton of emails on this subject and believe me I’m grateful for your feedback, but at the moment up to my eyeballs attempting to answer all these questions…

But regardless of this situation, please keep the energy growing by sending in your questions.

Whether you want a steady loving girlfriend or a harem of faithful followers, maybe you’re driving her or these women away and you don’t know why?

One of the hidden biggies is on the subject of personality, and really it is simply all about self-image and how you perceive yourself.

Shyness, doubt, etc, causes insecurity and unreliable behavior…but are you aware of the affect?

You’re probably inadvertently smothering her with too much sweet talk, praise and affection?

Being soft hearted is one thing, but the real challenge is being up against a ‘hard-headed’ woman.

This is where you can take good sound advice and learn to accept an abundance personality.

Yeah, it is a phenomenon or whatever you want to call it because an abundance personality shows the world that being the man you really are is truly the easiest way to get the woman you want!

Let me assure you…that power only comes from within, from having a healthy self-image, and from expecting to be successful with women.

Be bold and trust your manly instincts, turn-up the heat on your personality, and watch women melt.

Despite what you feel are holding you back, whether it be some lame excuse like you’re shy, wear glasses, have a big nose, or stutter when you speak…

You know what?

It doesn’t matter, and it has nothing to do with the problem of scoring hot babes.

Women want to be with a real man…

A man that makes her feel good about herself and brings out the best in her, and as unbelievably simple as it sounds, just being yourself, don’t apologize…that’s all it takes in a nutshell.

Let me explain…

It’s important to recognize that women do play a very important role in your lives, but equally important is to realize that you can choose what that role you play for yourself.

The difference between scarcity mentalities is a subtle shift in belief, but it will make all the difference in your outcomes.

Whether it's reflected in your confidence or self-assuredness, almost every woman is drawn like a magnet to a man with an abundance personality because it’s the sexiest trait a man can possess.

So how do you intensify your abundance personality?

By being honest about who you are…it shows self-respect, so you'll exude an abundance mentality of inner-confidence that’ll effortlessly says:

“I’m open and care free, no pressure with me”…this energy draws women to you like never before. Be honest with yourself about your goals, there's nothing wrong with wanting what you want.

Here’s five success tips to help boost your personality almost instantly:

1/: Pushing an issue or pressing comes from a scarcity mentality. When you believe you’ve no other option you may start to push or press an issue like if you feel the attraction with a woman is fading.

This may go against your grain but there’s no such thing as only one special woman when you accept an abundance mentality (there are lots of special women in your life who are dying to be with you.)

2/: Don't e-mail her or keep leaving messages before receiving her response. If she doesn't call you back, hey no big deal, she's not interested, it's really that simple…get over it and move on.

(And if you've gotta get drunk in order to have courage to call her, you've got deep issues that need to be addressed)

3/: Common sense yeah here's another first date no no...don't talk about your past negative experiences with women, or talk about marriage or settling down and having lots of kids.

It's ok to be honest telling her you're not into one night stands or not much of a ‘player’, it might score you some points, but she might not be in the mood to be pinned down with a long-term commitment right off the bat.

Keep cool, you’ve just met her, so let her settle in have some fun and get comfortable with you, while you’re the one that dictates the pace at which the relationship moves.

4/: Don't get desperate, in other words don’t overdose on her, give her space and don't forget about your buddies no matter how much you're into her.

If a woman suggests doing something that conflicts with your monthly 'male bonding' (poker night, ha, ha ha ha) let her know you can't make it because you're hanging out with the boys.

She'll see that you're anything but desperate, and this sets a tone for the future when you won't want to spend every single waking minute with her.

Plus, no matter what they may say, women like it when men act like men.

5:/ If you want a mate, forget about convenience dates. I wouldn’t recommend going out with a woman just so you don't have to go out alone, especially if you’ve no interest in pursuing anything more with her.

If you do so, you just may lose a real opportunity to meet your next girlfriend.

And since you're looking for a mate, never keep dating a woman simply for companionship or sex. Cut your losses the minute you know she's not for you…you'll be doing yourself a big favor.

In conclusion…refine your mental game.

Making the first move isn't a hard thing to do with practice it becomes like second wind.

Practice your abundance personality to stir her imagination in some wild ways, feed her the desire to you want in having good times, but don’t make her feel like she’ll always take second place to your ego and your lifestyle.

You’ve all the tools you want to score big time, now you just want to use them to your advantage.

Stay in each conversation a little longer and concentrate on listening more by asking open-ended questions.

For example:

"What made you consider becoming (insert whatever in here?)" this allows her to feel like you're interested and giving her your attention while still allowing you to dictate the flow of the conversation.

Feel free to talk about yourself, but do it without bragging and don't go overboard.

An easy way to talk about yourself is to tell funny stories about what a character you are, but make sure they're quirky and actually exciting.

It shows you can laugh at yourself and you’ve confidence, so you don’t have to make-up excuses or apologize by your behavior.

She should accept you for who you, and if you're not embarrassed, then she shouldn't be either.

You certainly don’t want a woman who wants to change you, if she does, then she should find somebody else and so should you.

Make sense?

Thanks for reading.

Talk soon, relax, enjoy, have fun and turn up the heat...

More power to you, or should I say more pleasure?

Love in Romance